ok well i had a bf for a while and it seemed like it waz going great however, after school ended he called me only 2 times. the second time he was acting kinda like a jerk.
about 2 days later i found out that the cruise he went on was with his best guy friend and 2 girls! he broke up with me on myspace and i looked at his profile and my friends and they had been talking about liking each other and dating and im positive that he cheated on me because most the summer he was with his guy friend and those 2 girls right in the same neighborhood and he didnt even stop by to say hi. why do i care so much if i like someone else???????? plz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-01 17:13:47 · 11 answers · asked by kim w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he cheated b4 we broke up...do u think he did cheat????
2006-08-01 17:20:02 · update #1
i didnt care that we broke up and i dont think i really liked him in the end but i dont know why i feel this way
2006-08-01 17:21:50 · update #2
Hey, well you obviously care because you guys were so close!! I mean if that guy did that to me I'd want to know why and if you didn't want me why cheat on me when you could just end it the easy way!! I know your dating someone else and your old bf is already over you I see, but maybe you aren't completely over him!! All you can do is live the rest of your life knowing that one day he'll hate his self for doing that to you when you know you have family friends and a new boyfriend that love you and support you more then he ever did!! One day you may forgive him and he'll want you back, but one day you'll come to relize most guys don't always change for the better!! He'll do that to most girls and he'll become one of those drunkies that drives a cab or something!! Look on the brightside!! Remember theres more guys out there for you, they all may come in weird packages!! But those are the best kind!! Keep yor head up high and when your ready to forget about him you and the people around you will be so much happier than you think!! Good Luck!!
2006-08-01 17:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by LiveLifeTheWayYouWish 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's human nature to still want someone we feel dumped us, or cheated on us. It's almost like we feel we must not have measured up, and they hurt us. We trusted them and they used us. I guess it's almost like if we had them back, they would be admitting they made a mistake. It's really hard though to forget we've been done wrong.
2006-08-02 00:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody likes to be cheated on. Just scream, cry, yell and smash a few pillows in a safe environment or whatever you need to do to get it out of your system and move on with life.
2006-08-02 00:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by Didgeridude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guess is that you don't care as much that he cheated as you are questioning what is wrong with you and why would he cheat on you.
there is nothing wrong with you he is a player and he got what he wanted from you and has moved on.
you need to move on yourself, knowing he is scum and it has nothing to do with you.
be careful next time we have a tendency to be attracted to the same type of people over and over again.
2006-08-02 00:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by eaglerock60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You care because betrayal hurts. It is only natural. Its time to let go darling. Let go and trust in God to show you the person you were meant to meet.
2006-08-02 00:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by solitas777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though you like someone else it will take a while to get over your last bf. cause im still trying to get over my ex gf
2006-08-02 00:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It akes time to get over these things.
2006-08-02 00:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by petman1988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheating if you broke up.
2006-08-02 00:18:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jen G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you still have feeling for him deep in you and you are also jealious of him and those other girls and its eating at you
that why.
2006-08-02 00:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like him still for some odd reason
2006-08-02 00:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by enjoylife! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋