what should i do with my sis getting in the middle of me and my bf?

Question

my sis put her noise where it don't belong and it always end the relationshp with my bf what should I do?

i know my sis is looking out for me but i don't think its right to put him down like he worthless. he feel he's worthless cause he's not well off and everything he's scared to be around my family cause my sister have said brouht him down that made me upset

Answer 1

Hook her up with someone. That should keep her busy. Good luck!

Answer 2

You should listen to your sister. She is looking out for you. Many times your decisions may not be the best one. Having a sister there to show you and help you with your choices make everything a lot better. I really do not think your sister is bothering you or saying negative things to you or your bf. Sometimes you might even do something stupid or dumb. For example, getting in trouble or letting your bf run your life. This is where the sister comes in the picture. She is looking out for your best interest. Next time your sister put her nose where it doesn't belong, just tell her politely that you appreciate her concern/help but you really need to learn everything by yourself. That's the beauty of having a bf - trial and error where both person learns and grow together. If your sister doesn't stop, oh well let it be.

There has to be a problem with you and your bf if your sister keeps interferring (bugging) in. When it comes to your sister and your bf, pick your sister! Trust me on this one. You will know one day...

Now however if your sister is acting very negative toward your bf then you need to try to avoid her. Sometimes people take time to change their negative behavior. If you telling her politely doesn't change her then just ignore her and not bring your bf around her or the family. If he was a good person I hope, I don't think all of this would happend. One thing I learned in life is that everybody can make mistake. It is how we deal with it or solve it. If your bf feels awkward around the family then let him know that you love him no matter what others think. But at the same time, you want him to be strong and give you a lot of love back. That's what really matters at the end is both of you. Be careful though, don't count out your sister's opinions. She could be right. Take it as constructive criticism. If problem arises more, let someone in your family know so that he/she can talk to your sister about this.

Answer 3

Figure out why she's sticking her nose where it doesn't belong. Does she feel ignored? If she does... make sure to set time for your sister and make it clear that you need time with boyfriends as well.

Answer 4

Try telling her that she doesn't need to be putting her nose where it doesn't belong, and to worry about her own business. Except maybe say it a little nicer..

Answer 5

let your b/f have some BAD sex with her to scare her off

Answer 6

tell her that u will lay her the **** out if she dont back offf

Answer 7

emaciate her