my boyfriend is all ways looking at other girls and when he is not he seems to tell me things like im stupid or im dumb or he dont care. every thing i s or think he tells me im wrong!
2006-08-01 17:02:44 · 9 answers · asked by hotty2foxxy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
face it, he juz wanna bang u hard n leave u to rot. leave him baby
2006-08-01 17:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by he 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I am so tired of hearing these types of questions because if you think you are grown enough to have a boyfriend, you should be grown enough to know that you should not call someone like that your boyfriend. It is common sense to know if someone treats you like that, you should leave. What are you waiting for? No one is worth loving, if he can not respect you. Him telling you all those things is mental abuse. If you stay in that situation, you will start believing that you are stupid or dumb and as long as you allow him to disrespect you by looking at other women and not doing anything about it, he will alway have control of your life. People like that have no control of their life so they find a victim who they can control to feel better about themselves. You are worth a lot more than that. Let him know that you are worth a hell of a lot more than he does and get out of that so called relationship. I always say, if a man don't think I am special, I definitely don't think he is. I would never let any man think they are better than I am and that I need them. They are a "want" and not a "need". Whenever you decide to be in a relationship, you make sure you tell yourself before you get in that you will not allow that person to disrespect you. Once you allow them to disrespect you, your life will always be a nightmare. I sure do wish you all the happiness in the world and I will pray that you make the right decision and find someone who is really worth your time. Good luck.
2006-08-02 00:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if he disrespects you then you should kick his a** to the side of the road. He evidently wants a piece of a** and other than that he wants total control over you. Don't put up with this. It is totally disrespectful for a man to look at another woman while he is with his gf. If a man wants to stare he can do it when he is alone. If he is saying he don't care and you are stupid then he is just using you or trying his best to degrade you. Have respect for yourself enought to tell him to p*ss off! I respect you so you have my approval to tell him to p*ss off. lol
Best wishes.
2006-08-02 00:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of that relationship ASAp. The guy dosnt love or respect you if he is acting like that.
Your to good for him. He is a total dog.
Take it from someone who knows. Iam 23 and I have been in a few relationships. If he is looking at other girls he dosnt respect you and he is probably cheating on you. If he is calling you names that is abuse its emotional abuse and you dont need to take that from a guy.
If you stay in the relationship your allowing him to do this its telling him that its ok that he treat you this way.
2006-08-02 00:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by catherine b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're sticking around, aren't you? If his outrageous behavior doesn't send you scurrying, then congratulations, you're the famous girl of whom many guys ask, "why do girls always go for the bad guys....why do nice guys finish last?" Obviously he's meeting some need for you that you would be willing to think so lowly of yourself to stay in such a situation.
2006-08-02 00:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does this because he can. he will keep doing it because you accept the bad treatment. You should dump him right away. he does not respect you, he certainly does not love you but he will **** you so you be the judge of if you are stupid or not. here's a hint, if you continue to remain with this so called boyfriend then he is right, you are stupid.
2006-08-02 00:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on. Next please...
Stick to your morals and values and believe in yourself...your right , and he is a control freak by putting you down and making you feel less than you are.
RUN!
2006-08-02 00:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by besttobefriends 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with this guy if he treats you this way? Dump the bum and find someone that will treat you better.
2006-08-02 00:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And why is he your boyfriend? Dump him NOW!!!
2006-08-02 00:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋