We were going out for a year and half and were friends before that. I meet him at college and everything was great. This summer was our first time doing long distance relationship. We lived 300 miles apart but i would go see him every three weeks. I would call him everyday and it seemed like everything was great. He told me he cheated and found another girl and he was attracted to other girls. Does that mean im not attractive anymore. He didnt even call me when my grandma died. I know we probly arent ment to be but now i dont want to go back to college and see him. All of are friends are friends with each other. He brought up of he is living with his best friend next year and its going to be a party house and if he's drunk wants to hook up with them. So does this mean im not attractive. Im 5'3 and wiegh 112 lbs. I have brunette hair. I just cant believe how bad he has hurt me. I have never felt so bad about myself. I feel like i have lost everything and nothing is going to get better.
2006-08-01 17:02:37 · 3 answers · asked by jenks1545 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl! this doesnt have anything to do with you being attractive or not! he is obviously not in love with you and is not ready for a relationship! u dont want to go back to college because of him? whats wrong with you?!
show some muscle... this is where you are mad at him, for cheating, for him not being a real man and telling you about how he felt earlier! you go back to school, and you find yourself a better man! and you show him you dont give a f*ck about him anymore... show him you dont care. it doesnt matter if you have friends in common...
im sorry if not being sensitive to your feelings, but why do you do this to yourself? you put yourself down for a person who doesnt deserve it. you are judging yourself and you have done nothing wrong... except trust and love someone who didnt deserve it. its ok, we all make mistakes. just learn from them, and dont give him another chance if he comes crawling back.
2006-08-01 18:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by LiLiTh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though it seems like you will never feel better, you will. Concider yourself lucky to find out this stuff about him now, rather then later. Just because someone cheats does not mean you are not wanted or beautiful, now you are free to find a really nice guy who cares for you and respects you like you deserve. Not calling when your grandma die is a big red flag in my book. Concider this a blessing in diguise.
2006-08-01 17:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by rohwaldy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TROLL!!!!! you're a few historical forty or 50 yr historical white supremacist sitting to your condominium puzzling over why nobody desires to play together with your millimeter peter! TROLL!!!!!! Morning M- this night permit's hand around in that closet and video tape that **** and we will promote it on the net as amatuer night time!
2016-08-28 14:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by stults 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋