I am 19 (soon to be 20) and do not have a lot of sexual experience. Just recently me and my partner began having sex, but he's bigger than im use to and i'm finding myself really sore near the opening of my vagina, like it's ripped, afterwards. What is the best sexual postion to make it less hurtful on my body?
also, as he is entering me he gets most of the way in, then theres a sharp pain, but usually we just slowly push through until hes fully in. Whats causing this? and what can we do?
2006-08-01 17:00:11 · 9 answers · asked by Lynn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
KY Jelly works wonders :)
2006-08-01 17:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by curiousandsmiley 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First things first.....with the pain, is it in your cervix? If so you really should see a doctor just to be sure everything is okay.
As for a position I would recommend you on top because you can then control the depth, speed, etc.
Best wishes.
2006-08-01 17:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use more lube for one. and try you on top or doggy style or butterfly (you on your back legs spread in the air). use a bed and not the floor. all those positions help open up the vagina better. you could also have him use his fingers before just putting it in to help loosen you up.
2006-08-01 17:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO STOP HAVING SEX!! ITS NOT RIGHT BEFORE MARRIAGE. LET ME TELL YOU WANTS GOING TO HAPPEN WITH THIS RELATIONSHIP. YOUR JUST GOING TO BREAK UP WITH THIS CURRENT GUY IN THE NEXT FEW MONTHS OR YOUR ARE GOING TO START HAVEING PROBLEMS WITH HIM. HMMM HE MAY EVEN CHEAT ON YOU WITH ANOTHER GIRL ONCE HE GET TIRED OF HAVING SEX WITH YOU. ALL OF YOUR RELATIONSHIPS WILL ONLY LAST A LITTLE WHILE BECAUSE YOU HAVE SEX TOO SOON
2006-08-01 17:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try doggie. I've heard that it helps, unfortunately i haven't had this problem with ne1..lol
2006-08-01 17:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by drbramucci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always like this
2006-08-01 20:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats common with big *****.girls think they want one but don't want to live with one.....good luck
2006-08-01 17:07:59 · answer #7 · answered by hotmaxus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u shd b on top, then u can control his penetration depth
2006-08-01 17:06:15 · answer #8 · answered by he 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what to tell you but thanks for the rush
2006-08-01 17:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋