2006-08-01 17:00:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok be come and know everything is ok? Tell yourself that ok?
Now
A)Confirm the pregnancy is for real by getting it tested
You must know before you proceed
B)Tell your parents
C)Decides how you're going to handle it.
This is a scary time for your girlfriend, she must be alone and frightened as much as you. Be there for her, and tell her you are with you. Its better to face something terryfying with someone than to do it alone. To ask this question shows that you want advice because you want to be responsible. This shows character. Be strong. Times like these prayer is always helpful.
2006-08-01 17:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by solitas777 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One time is all it takes...but many things can change when you have a kid. The best options I can give you are to make sure you got a kid comin' and that she's not fibbing and trying to scare you, or to prepare to have a kid. You know, get a GOOD job and begin saving money. It's also good to prepare your mind for this upcoming delivery. But make sure you're going to have a kid. Start heading toward marriage if she is pregnant, because you will have no respect if you don't. All you gotta do is stay calm and comfort her. Make her feel like it's not a bad thing. Having a kid isn't the end of the world, ya know. I hope you have a good life...
2006-08-02 00:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by ed_boy5249 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess you should have thought about how young she was BEFORE you did the deed you dummy! I'm sorry but I feel no sympathy for you, for her maybe a little..but you really have proven yourself, so has she, very ignorant eh? Well, hopefully she's not pregnant, and If i were you, i would stop having sex, until your old enough to deal with the consequences. Or maybe you will have to learn to grow up faster than you anticipated..you better pray she's not.
2006-08-02 00:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by PeachyFixation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she is strong enough to have a baby. But the younger, the weaker. So help her, take care of her, give her comfy backrubs, bring her to the doctor that takes care of pregnant women,...
2006-08-02 00:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are brave enough to do it, then you should be brave enough to face the consequences.. You two did what you did because both of you liked it.. Both of you should've thought of the consequences first before jumping right into it.. Now, be responsible enough to face the problems.. Easier said than done right? Well, that's the fact..
2006-08-02 00:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by Lei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a test done then if she is pregnant access options of adoption, keeping the child, or the unmentionable to me
2006-08-02 00:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually from speaking from experience... ive found from talking to friends that ur period tends to be late after your first time... probably because of the stress levels, also depending on how young she is is her period even regular enough to be a good judge on whether or not she is late and pregnant... or just irregular...
2006-08-02 00:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by AL! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, how old are you? If you only did it once, do not be stupid, it only takes once, did you listen in Health Class? Just tell your parents. Tell hers...and ask her? It's normal to be scared and giddy, so reeeellllaaaaxxx!
2006-08-02 00:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by the one 17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only takes one time to get a girl pregnant. If your old enough to have sex you should be old enough to take care of a child. You should of thought about protection before you had sex.
2006-08-02 00:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing i can tell you is get her to get a pragnancy test done. Then after that if she is pragnant you guys should go to your parents, as scarey as that sounds your going to need all the support you can get. Good luck!
2006-08-02 00:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋