My sister is the fast one the wild girl who guyus love where as i am mellow and I dont draw as much attention.She can be a real wench sometimes and i love her but i feel like she doesnt love me ya know.It hurts real bad to feel that way.Sometimes she says really mean things and she never apologizes things like no one wants u here ya know.Thinking about puts a lump in my throat.I know there a people with worse problems but it still hurts sometimes.
2006-08-01 16:59:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am 13 and going to th eigth grade in 7 days
2006-08-01 17:23:55 · update #1
First stop this self pity.You are not doing any good by feeling for what all your sister has said.Think your sister must be really frustrated and using you as punch bag.Talk to her about how you feel for her and how much you love.Express yourself in assertive manner and let your sister know how bad you feel sometimes.Explain to your sister that you cant be pushed around and take all the rubbish that she throws at you.Tell her in a polite and firm manner that you cant take it lying down here after and if she still continues her tirade you will retaliate.Have self respect.You can be pushed around as long as you want to.Think that your sister is seeing a potential rival in you and so wants to assert her superiority over you.Dont let her dominate you.Never take it to heart whatever she says.take it with a pinch of salt.Be yourself and be natural.Just think that there are better things in this world to worry about than what you are goin through.Time is the best healer,she will realise her mistake and you will be great friends.My advance wishes to you both.
2006-08-01 17:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Your profile says you are going into grade 8, and I would bet that your sister is older, in high school. My sister was a general pain in the butt when she was in high school. Today she is mellow and a reliable friend. Your sister is just into older things and she doesn't want a little sister tagging along, because she thinks you will hold her back, or she is doing stuff she doesn't want you to see because you will tell on her. It is unfortunately pretty normal, but mean and unfair as well. Is there ever a time when it is just the two of you? You can talk to her, and you can tell her it is alright for hewr to do her thing, give her some space, but that you desire time with her as well.
2006-08-01 17:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by Iamstitch2U 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, im sorry you feel bad. Its just the age. Sometimes I feel this way with my brother. He has always been the more popular one that is always being asked out by girls while im the more laid back one. He would usually be so busy with his life that he left me out and said mean things and at times I thought he didnt even care about me. As he has become older though he has come a little out of it. I think once your sister is older she will start to think of you more. She loves you, she just doesnt always show it. When you two are older yall will probably become better friends. Just blow off the mean things right now. She will probably feel bad about them in the future.
2006-08-01 17:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by A* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her get you down your sister seems a little too self involved to consider the feelings of her sister keep doing what makes you happy and worry about you and maybe someday your sister will grow up and understand that pain because karma comes back to you! one day someone will make her feel insignificant and she will feel the same hurt.
2006-08-01 17:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people have sisters who they love deeply, however it is impossible to get along with them. Sisters should be close and care for one another in an ideal world.
My sister and I couldn't be more different and it hurts but there is no reasoning with her. Don't beat yourself up about this, just try and get used to it as I have had to do.
I know it is very painful, however until she comes to her senses there is nothing you can do.
2006-08-01 17:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by Gone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not she is a normal sister and so are you there is always rivary between sisters, if something happend, I would bet she would be the first one there, its kind of a stage she is going through justlike broyhers do, if you two were exactly the same, wow what a boring life you guys would have growing up, God Bless.
2006-08-01 17:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by sidekick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First...Love your sister. Your sister has something dark on her...something dark on her spirit. By being promiscious like that, she is showing a lack of respect for her self. This means she hurts herself because she hates herself. She also hurts you. Your sister has something dark on her soul, be faithful and pray for these dark things to leave her.
2006-08-01 17:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by solitas777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok sisters will be sisters its the nature of growing up, dont worry soon she will show you she cares, i mean trust me she cares about u but she doesnt show it it could be hard somtimes.
it would help if you sit down and talk to her about the way you feel, it feels good to let the wieght off your shoulders.
2006-08-01 17:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by awww 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it must suck for you, your sister getting all the guy's attention. tell her how u feel. i have a friend who never says sorry either and im so sick of her but i learn to live with it.
2006-08-01 17:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly she's just trying to rebel.....and she just takes her feelings out on you! I maybe she's even a little jelous of you because you don't need attention.....i'd just try to talk to her and tell her how you feel.
2006-08-01 17:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by *only~wishful~thinking* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋