Well I'm 16 and have a boyfriend who even though I like he's not that much of a bf we talk online but he does'nt have a phone and he's always busy so we talk like once a week and see eachother like 2 maybe 3 times a month although we've only been together for 4 months I think it's stupid but I do like him. So I delt with it and last month we did'nt talk for two weeks and people started to tell me he's cheating on me. And I talked to him about it one day when he finally got online and he said he was'nt and he was really mad. But now he has'nt talked to me in a week and I don't know whats going on. But people are just telling me to break up with him and yet others are saying don't break up with him...and then there are the other guys who are saying that I should break up with him for them...and although I do like one of the guys there is about three more and I would feel bad really bad I don't know what to do mostly about the first thing though so please help me!
2006-08-01 16:57:03 · 20 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just wear super lowrise jeans. he will like just you again.
2006-08-01 16:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow hunny slow down. So you are 16. Well im 18 and I want to help. First off you are only 16 so you have a lot of life to live and you are going to meet lots of new and sexy guys so don't fret that much. Second if this boy is not much of a bf as you say and he is cassing all this stress on you at your young age, I think you should let him go. Thats my advice.
2006-08-01 17:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by SweetHeart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the on-line guy how often you want to talk and see each other. If he can't live up to that, either compromise to what he offers you or break up with him.
In the future, don't expect a guy to know what you want, speak up if you have a problem (like not talking or seeing each other enough).
If something doesn't feel right about this relationship, then it is better to end it and move on.
2006-08-01 17:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, he may be mad because you accused him of cheating if he wasn't. All in all you have to ask yourself how happy you are in this relationship. Are you happy? Is it worth hanging on and putting forth the effort to save the relationship? If so, it sounds like the two of you need to sit down FACE TO FACE and have a talk. As for if he is cheating in the first place....has these people seen him cheating or is it just an assumption?
Best of luck to you.
2006-08-01 17:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If online conversation is the only form of your relationship, then you should end it. You deserve more !! To love, and to be loved. That's what you should be striving for with every relationship you have. If he really cared about you he would be doing everything he could to see you. But he's not so that leads me to think he's not that interested in you. But your the only one who knows him and how you feel so the only decision should come from you. Good luck.
2006-08-01 17:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by Franko Unamerican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, here's the deal. If your not happy with him, then I say dump him. He sounds like a total scumbag anyway. I'm sure there are plenty of other guys out there that you would get to talk to and see more of. I know this sounds cheesy, but you should listen to what your heart tells you.
2006-08-01 17:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd get rid of him if u dont see him often or talk to him often. he just might be cheating on you easliy especially if you see him 2 or 3 times a month! and u only talk online... i think you can find someone better who you could actually spend time with in person and talk to more often instead of just online.
2006-08-01 17:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by curlie-ba-twirlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 16......believe it or not, you're still young. You don't have to make every guy you like your boyfriend.......even as an adult. Date different guys so you can get a taste of what you do like and have some fun. You've got lots of time to have a serious boyfriend.......be young and have some fun.
2006-08-01 17:05:20 · answer #8 · answered by dreamgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much of a boy friend tells the whole drawn out story. You are not happy with him so move on with your life before one of you get there feeling hurt badly.
2006-08-01 17:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he cheat on you?
If he didn't, he's probably hurt that you didn't trust him. If he did, he's upset that you found him out.
As for the other guys who are saying, "break up with him for me," I would expect that they would do the same thing to you - they'd break up with you for another girl, just to be with her.
Tell them to buzz off. Deal with man number one first. If you want to break up with him, or if you don't but think it's the best thing, do that. But those other guys? Not worth your time.
2006-08-01 17:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by Brian L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is ok a guy doesnt cheat on u unless they really hate the relationship that they are in so dont stress just ask him does he love you if so then dont worry about anything dont dump him he sounds ok he could just be busy with studies and stuff
2006-08-01 17:03:49 · answer #11 · answered by sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋