Ok.. Here it goes. I am going through a divorce right now and my soon to be EX has informed me that because I am going to be a single mother that no guy would want me because it's just extra baggage. IS THIS TRUE?
2006-08-01 16:48:55 · 16 answers · asked by Christina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No..My ex-gf who I lived with for 6 yrs B-4 she died of cancer had 3 children....that was 3 yrs ago..her youngest daughter and her daughters 3 yr old son still live with me.
To the "right" guy its a "Package" deal.
Good luck
2006-08-01 16:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Stephen A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that's not true. The right man will see you for who you are and accept your child as part of the package of you. I'd dare say the right man will make a great stepfather, perhaps better than the real father, because of the spiteful warning he gave.
2006-08-01 23:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am getting ready to go thru one also and I have a little girl so you could always end up meeting a guy with a child. And isn't he going to be looking also? He has a child right? He is just trying to screw with your head! Don't listen to the bullshit! You will do just fine!
2006-08-02 00:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can be exceptions but about 75% of the guys it would not effect. Your ex is just being an a**. He is probably HOPING no one would want you and you will sit and pine for the days of love with him. lol
Congrats on your new freedom!!!!!!
2006-08-01 23:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there are plenty of guys out there who like kids and have kids of their own and are single. your ex is just trying to discourage you and don't let him forget that those kids are his too and he's still got responsibility for them. so if his thoery is true he too will have trouble finding someone. i find some middle aged moms hot so keep your head up
2006-08-01 23:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by paluzzi81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..i dun think so..when u love one person..you will love everything of her and even when she has her children..you will want to treat her child as yours but also have children of your own after all the more the merrier but also the finance load la..haha
2006-08-01 23:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by Stephen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would just prove him worng and start dating again. I actually like women with children because they are alittle more caring.
2006-08-01 23:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by blazenkon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, I am talking to a woman now with a kid and she is so great and I wouldn't change her for a woman without a kid ever. Her kid is the best too!
2006-08-01 23:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way most of the women i date are single mothers
2006-08-01 23:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by steamroller98439 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. my ex tried that same line on me. DONT BELIEVE IT! he is just trying to control you and your emotions and its working! You will find someone who will like you and your son. I have 2 kids and my boyfriend LOVES them both! Dont give up. finding love is like an 8 hour job! just dont give up!
2006-08-01 23:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋