I have a 13yr old going on 18 he thinks?

Question

my 13 yr old doesn't listen to me. He tells me no when i ask him to help clean and he leaves when he wants and I dont know what to do. I have tried alot of stuff and dont know what else to do? Help please

Answer 1

Don't give him things, If he has a cell phone, turn it off, an i-pod? Take it away,
A computer, cut it off.

I tell my kids if they won't do what I ask, I won't do for them. A roof, food and clothing is all I need to provide them with. If they want more they need to deserve it.

Answer 2

Here Ya Go

Don't Mess With Mom

My son came home from school one day,
with a smirk upon his face.
He decided he was smart enough,
to put me in my place.

"Guess what I learned in Civics Two,
that's taught by Mr. Wright?
It's all about the laws today,
The 'Children's Bill of Rights.'

It says I need not clean my room,
don't have to cut my hair.
No one can tell me what to think,
or speak, or what to wear.

I have freedom from religion,
and regardless what you say,
I don't have to bow my head,
and I sure don't have to pray.

I can wear earrings if I want,
and pierce my tongue & nose.
I can read & watch just what I like,
ge tattoos from head to toe.

And if you ever spank me,
I'll charge you with a crime.
I'll back up all my charges,
with the marks on my behind.

Don't you ever touch me,
my body's only for my use,
not for your hugs and kisses,that's just more child abuse.

Don't preach about your morals,
like your Mama did to you.
That's nothing more than mind control,
and it's illegal too!

Mom, I have these children's rights,
so you can't influence me,
or I'll call Children's Services Division,
better known as CSD."

Of course my first instinct was
to toss him out the door.
But the chance to teach him a lesson
made me think a little more.

I mulled it over carefully,
I couldn't let this go.
A smile crept upon my face,
he's messing with a pro.

Next day I took him shopping
at the local Goodwill Store.
I told him, "Pick out aal you want,
there's shirts and pants galore.

I've called and checked with CSD
who said they didn't care
if I bought you K-Mart shoes
instead of Nike Airs.

I've cancelled that appointment
to take your drivers test.
The CSD is unconcered
so I'll decide what's best."

I said "No time to stop and eat,
or pick up stuff to munch.
And tomorrow you can start to learn
to make your own sack lunch.

Just save the raging appetite,
and wait till dinner time.
We're having liver and onions,
a favorite dish of mine."

He asked "Can I please rent a movie,
to watch on my VCR?"
"Sorry, but I sold your TV,
for new tires on my car.

I also rented out your room,
you'll take the couch instead.
The CSD requires
just a roof over your head.

Your clothing won't be trendy now,
I'll choose what we eat.
That allowance that you used to get,
will buy me something neat.

I'm selling off your jet ski,
dirt-bike & roller blades.
Check out the 'Parents Bill of Rights',
its in effect today!

Hey hot shot, are you crying,
Why are you on your knees?
Are you asking God to help you out,
instad of CSD..?"

Answer 3

WAIT UNTIL HE GETS TO BE 18 AND THEN TURNS AROUND AND SAYS.

B I T C H DO I HAVE T I T S.

DADDY NEEDS TO LEAN YOU A HAND BIG TIME.

Answer 4

good old fashion spankin threaten to spank him in front of his friendstake his toy s away ground him

Answer 5

Send him to boot camp or the detention home.........That'll straighten him up and he'll thank you for it later............

Answer 6

boot camp

Answer 7

if you spare the rod you will spoil your child.......think about it ........you no what to do.SO MAKE IT DO WHAT IT DO BABY

Answer 8

talk to your local DHS office...