i have decided i am ready to have sex. i really want to tomorrow night for the 1 year w. my b.f. idk what he has planned but that would be the perfect end to what i can hope will be the perfect night.
condoms=hell yes
but i am not on the pill. my mother would FREAK if she found out i have even considered sex. she is just coming around to me loving him. i am scared.idk why i just have a silly feeling in my stomache. i no this is the guy i want to give it up to though.
just need some advice.
nothing stupid please.
2006-08-01 16:28:44 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have had oral sex with him.
i think its time for real sex.
thanks.
keep the advice coming.
2006-08-01 16:43:05 · update #1
i don't find it a necissity to wait till marriage.
i would definatly know what i am getting myself into.
good sex.
great sex.
ok sex.
bad sex.
not that i would not marry him if he wasn't good. or i didn't like it. i am just saying. that isn't the kind of suprise i would like.
2006-08-01 16:49:09 · update #2
I know exactly what you're going through and how you feel.
But, if there is one thing ever worth learning, it's trust your instinct.
That funny feeling in your stomach is you trying to tell yourself that this probably isn't such a good idea or not the right time.
Besides, if he is the one you want to 'lose it' to, the longer you wait the more special and meaningful it will be.
I hope my advice helped and I apologize if it doesn't.
Take care!
2006-08-01 16:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by flod_prfekshun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what type of advice you are expecting. i'm sorry, i know that you feel you're ready, but i tend to think it's better to wait. i mean, what if the condom breaks, you know? and do you really want to sneak around and have sex? i know that i'd rather wait until i'm older and have my own place. but i've been told i'm not quite normal, lol. i guess, just make sure you love this guy. do you think this will in any way hurt the realtionship? are you sure you both love each other?
well, i hope that you have a nice anniversary, with or without the sex.
2006-08-01 16:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just don't feel you should just give it up to him. 'don't you think it's best to wait till marriage? That is something you are going to remember the rest of your life. The first . And if you end up disappointed your going to feel worse for having not waited. Condoms can break, maybe get on the pill and you have to give it time and if something goes wrong you'd be protected even more. Maybe oral sex? insead.
2006-08-01 16:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 12:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've waited this long, why not wait until you can get on the pill? It would be best to use a condom and the pill. Remember though, it takes a full month for the pill to be effective. You can never be to safe.
2006-08-01 16:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you have sex with him...have u discussed all the risks? pregnancy...std's..if they apply (previous partners of his) are you REALLY both ready..will it make your relationship aquard? and although your using condoms i really think its a good idea if you get on the pill though that would delay you having sex for a few months...because the pills wont take effect right away..but its worth being safe right? talk it all out with him and be sure your both ready
2006-08-01 16:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and let it all come together if for any reason you feel uncomfortable stop. its a good idea to have 2 or 3 condoms, have him pull out before he cums that way if the condom has a leak its already out and also have him change it that way he goes back in fresh and clean.
2006-08-01 16:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT TILL YOUR'E 25 is all I can say.
2006-08-01 16:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by Iamsocool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋