Well, me and this guy have been friends for a month, and recently we fooled around and we both admit our feelings for each other. However, a week later, he has gotten in a relationship. When I asked him about it, he said yes but it is complicated. However, we acted like we were boyfriend/girlfriend but all of a sudden this girl appears. He told me that he wasnt ready for a relationship, but all of a sudden he is in one. I am hurting right now. What should I do?
2006-08-01 16:22:26 · 9 answers · asked by Prettygirl06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ditch him...he used you...bottom line. Also if he'll cheat on his current girlfriend don't think he wont cheat on you.
2006-08-01 16:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! You are only going to get hurt if you try and make this work. If he really liked you he would have asked you out or broke up with the other girl. He probly was talking to both of you girls at the same time because the girl wouldnt have appeared out of nowhere.
2006-08-01 23:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by jenks1545 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say remain friends but be very careful not to get your emotions tied up....you don't want to set yourself up for disappointment.. :0(
Guys are trivial like that...maybe he's confused or maybe he really does know exactly what he's doing...
BE AWARE...BEWARE...and BE weary ..
2006-08-01 23:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by Hidden*Halo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to dump her, for you, if his feeilngs for you are sincere.
I normally oppose cheating, but maybe you and he should cheat togther, and let his gf see the two of you together. That should do the trick.
2006-08-01 23:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing to do, but let it go. It's takes two to make it work. Someone will come along who wants to be with you and no one else.
2006-08-01 23:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by neener68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends if you want to, but don't invest too much emotional energy into him . . .it sounds like you'll regret it.
2006-08-01 23:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by ThatGuy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurrrl. . . lemme tell you somethin'! he's totally not worth it. don't wait for him. if you wait, and you do end up being with him, how are you so sure that he won't turn around and do that to you?
2006-08-01 23:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2006-08-01 23:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON, if he cared and "wanted" you he would dump her. "hes just not that into you"
2006-08-01 23:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by opinion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋