part of a finger. I had been talking to her for about 2 weeks and never noticed it but once I did notice it I could not stop staring at it and it really turned me off and I stopped talking to her.
2006-08-01 16:19:03 · 22 answers · asked by meanblacktiger 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I felt bad about it don't get me wrong but it was something l couldn't get over.
2006-08-01 16:27:58 · update #1
It doesn't matter whether it was wrong or right.
If it turned you off, it turned you off and there's nothing you can do about it.
Move on and find someone you're attracted to completely, and let her find someone the same way, because you both deserve that.
I hope my advice helped.
Take care!
2006-08-01 16:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by flod_prfekshun 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Grow up!!!
What does part of a finger have to do with being a good person or a beautiful person? That is so juvenile! Maybe you should have just asked her what happened! May have been an interesting story.
Not like it is some disfiguring scar, but then again I have a feeling that you would not have ever talked to her!
You are really going to miss out on a lot in you life if things like that keep you from getting to know someone!
Sorry if I was too blunt, but I am just honest.
2006-08-01 23:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by suequek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you wrong, NO you have a right to discriminate about what you find attractive.
However, Don't you think that you may be turned off right now because of the shock value. Maybe you could try and give it some more time and just as you didn't notice it for the first 2 weeks you may adjust to it and not "notice" it later.
Just my 2 cents
2006-08-01 23:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by reighngstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were interested in her and had been seeing her for 2-wks,before you noticed,so obviously it's not that noticeable! You thought she was HOT,but were you interested in her or just what she could do for you? If you were interested in her other than sexually her missing finger should'nt make a difference!We all have flaws and faults about us,and some people can't help theirs show on the outside,but some of our faults are'nt reveiled just because there on the inside,but everyone needs and deserves someone to love even if their not PERFECT,because truely no on is PERFECT,so if this stands in your way of talking to her you never was interested in the first place!!!
2006-08-01 23:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy IQ 125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that when you like someone, you should take her as she is. But letting that one lacking finger turn you off and away from her is very disappointing especially for that girl when she learns about it. I'm sure, she didn't want that to happen to her. If she saw your staring at her hand with one lacking finger, she could have been embarrased. If she did see you, you might as well apologize to her and talk about it a little with signs of concern with what happened to her. After a very short talk about it, divert the topic to other interesting matters and that would be the start of your friendship with her. For all you know, she might even prove to be a girlfriend material after all.
2006-08-01 23:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess would be that you are shallow and vain! Nothing in life is perfect.She may be missing part of her finger but she probably has a wonderful personality and a kind heart. Have you looked at your self lately? are you missing something that would cause someone to avoid you? And how would you feel if say you really like a gal and she thought maybe your nose was weird or your eyes too far apart etc?
2006-08-01 23:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way wrong for that. What's the big deal about her missing part of a finger. You liked her but then you noticed a physical imperfection and quit talking to her? Are you really that shallow? Karma's a bit*h, remember that.
2006-08-01 23:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have only known her two weeks. I would suggest that if it bothers you alot, maybe you were interested in her for the wrong reasons in the first place, and she's not for you. If you think she is a good person that you would like to get to know more, do just that, and the finger thing will soon not be an issure. Who needs all their fingers anyways........we have ten of them, there's plenty to spare.
2006-08-01 23:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i'd be freaked out too...but that was kinda mean what you did... i mean u actually stared at it! It's fine if you're not attracted to her anymore but don't cut off conversation all together at least still be friends or something...i'd hate to think how she's feeling if she actually knew that, that was the reason why you haven't called her back. I mean it's not like it's her fault that she has a defect...
2006-08-01 23:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by c@ramel_m@mi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya, how would you feel if you were missing a finger and she did that to you. i know what you mean by the shock of seeing something like that but just try to ignore it at first and then later ask her how she lost it. but don't give up over a piece of the finger, its not like it the whole arm or leg.
2006-08-01 23:25:23 · answer #10 · answered by paluzzi81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you was wrong. It should not be what on the outside that get to like her. So maybe she is missing a finger that should not change that you like her. But was your choice. Follow your heart.
2006-08-01 23:24:28 · answer #11 · answered by Lily N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋