Invisible?

Question

I feel invisible ... and anytime I try to do something... the littlest thingg.. I get yelled at. Mostly by my older sister. It's like she never wants me around anymore. We're only 2 and a half years apart, and usually we're really close. Shes going through a lot of drama lately, but it weird how she can always have fun with everyone else, and not me. When I try to talk to her her cell phone is constantly ringing. I turned it off once, and no surprize.. she yelled at me.
Help??!

...i'm the younger sister.

Answer 1

I was in the same boat but mine was a little worse. I am the middle child of five. I felt like there was no room for me in their lives and that I could nothing right. I used my words to express how I felt. I wrote poetry and journals and any kind of written word I could. When I got tired of writing I would record my writings so that I could hear myself. One day my dad listened to one of my tapes and found out how I felt. He called a family meeting and we talked about it. No it wasnt a quick fix, everything didnt get perfect over night but it did get how I felt out and that felt good. Try to explain how you feel to your parents and maybe ask them if you can all sit down. This is a common problem with sisters. It feels like one outshines the other but I promise you that one day when you and your sister are adults things will be different. If you want to talk you can email me at [e-mail] Good luck.

Answer 2

I'm sorry your going throught this, it's hard being the younger one in the fily because u always have to try to be like the older ones. I guess what u have to do is just have your own friends and have your own thing to do since she seems to never want u around. Things may change when ur both older. It's just that she's older and she may feel that she'ds babysitiing u when ur around and she doesn't want to feel like she's tired down.


I 13yrs older then my sisters and I was always babysitting and I lways had to take them almost everywhere. I didn't like it because that meant that I couldn't do what I wanted.

So u just have to find ur own thing to do that u like with either by yourself or friends. Once u keep urself busy doing hwat u like it won't bother u or her, because she can do her own thing and u do ur own and u don;t have to get n each others way.

Answer 3

Well your sister is having a life of her own. I'm the youngest too and when my sisters where having their boyfriends and friend I felt so alone. But I realized that I too have a life and can have lots of friends who I can really talk to and will listen to me. Next thing I know we are talking again cause she wanted to know how i'm doing.