My bf he went on a camping trip and when he got back he was extremly affectionate like he would call me and say I miss u I want u so bad right now and he would also say I love u and all that stuff do u think he cheated on me?
2006-08-01 16:06:28 · 6 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends, how long was he away? Would he normally be affectionate if he had been away from you for that long?Is your relationship very solid?
If he wouldn't normally be like that then either 1. someone on the trip was complaining about their women and he was so thankful that he's with you that he showed it via the above mentioned affection. OR 2. Maybe the trip put your relationship into perspective and he is just very happy about it.
If your relationship was NOT solid and he's not normally like that then I would say that you need to be a little guarded with the goodies and see how his behavior is over the next couple weeks.
I don't think that this affection is enough to condemn the guy.
PS. Guys and Girls DO get very affectionate after they have done something wrong, they try to compensate for their guilt.
2006-08-01 16:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by reighngstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, to say that your bf cheated on you because he abruptly became like that as you were saying when he returned from his camping escapade, will be very unfair for him. Nobody was there with him to say that he did see him do that cheating.
Give him the benefit of the doubt by just thinking and believing in your heart that may be he really missed you when he was out there camping. You know, during times of being alone, a person may have all the time in the world to think about almost anything that is happening in his life. That is the time when he can search his heart and soul and ask himself if he has been living a life that is worthwhile and productive. May be, you were included in his soul searching or perhaps you might have even been in the majority of his thoughts then.
After his soul-searching perhaps he said to himself that he would be a different person who is more caring, more concerned and sweeter person that he has never been very much before when he returns to you.
So, you could be very lucky to have someone like him who is so warm and loving. Remember this: for as long as you have not witness PERSONALLY, WITH YOUR OWN TWO EYES, that he is cheating on you, don't let that thought destroy your relationship. Don't believe what other people will say about him or what he is doing and don't let suspicions overpower you. Have trust in him for love lasts when trust thrives in the hearts of the two persons in love with each other. Give the world the best love you have and the best love will come back to you. Smile.
2006-08-01 16:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because if he did cheat on you during the camping trip he definitley would not have called you. He actually sounds crazy about you which is a good thing. One of the signs is when your b/f is less affectionate toward you. You shouldn't be worried. Good night!
2006-08-01 16:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by lolio_5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is so totally cheating on u.
u have to understand the psyche of the dude.either he had hot wild sex with some chick while he was there and id beginning to feel guilty, or he just made out with some girl while stone drunk,.
either way, he still wants to be with u, but he cheated on u.
better corner him and beat the truth out of him.
2006-08-01 16:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he cheated on you......perhaps he just miss you so bad.
2006-08-01 16:14:43 · answer #5 · answered by Shining STAR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hes just missing you like too much girl.
2006-08-01 16:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by The King of Games 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋