I hate my dad. We have never gotten along and we can't stand each other. He made my life a living hell so I moved out.Well I had to come home so I could get my stuff for college ready. I haven't been home 24 hours and he and mom are already up my *** about everything. I hate him so much. I struggled living on my own but I was happy because I wasn't getting hit and yelled at. Now he's taken my car because I got mad at mom for asking me 1000 questions while I was trying to take an online test for college. So I can't get to work, I can't see my friends, and I'm stuck in the hell-hole I was so desperate to escape. Someone please help me.
2006-08-01 15:39:52 · 20 answers · asked by BamaBelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
And yes I am of age...that means 18 or over
2006-08-01 15:43:06 · update #1
I'm adopted, so we're not blood.
2006-08-01 15:50:02 · update #2
No Dont call the police like that retart said.
Your mum & dad raised you when you were young and they like you, otherwise they wouldnt have raised you if they hated you. If you could have a video playback of when your parents took you to kindergarten, and Dr's when you were sick, you wont say that. There is difinetley a reason why there is tension betwee you & dad. u need to ask mom & find out what's up with dad. Unless he's on drugs, or high-alcohol, he wouldnt act cold against you for no reason. They're your parents and only people from your blood. get counsellling or something. if all else fails, give eachother some distance till you can talk again and solve things as a family over a dinner or seating. get someone else in the family involved like a brother, uncle, aunt. etc
2006-08-01 15:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by mr_1ceman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, how old are you? If over 18, why don't you be an adult and have adult-like conversations with your parents? Don't be sarcastic, don't get mad, don't cut them off when they're answering your question(s), don't be a smart ***, listen, and be respectful. For God's sake, they're your parents. Limit the time everyone speaks and take turns. If that doesn't work, I'm sure you're ready to move out again and you can use the college's computer to do all your online college tests. If you're under 18, sorry can't help you.
2006-08-01 22:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
1. You hate your Dad. You moved out.
2. You came home to get your stuff for college (who's paying for college?) Mom and Dad are up your @ss about everything. (why are you still there?)
3. You claim you got hit and yelled at (why are you still there?)
4. You got mad at your Mom for asking questions while you were taking a test. Dad took your car. (who's paying for the car?) If it's your car, call the police. (oh, and why are you still there?)
5. Grow up...stop blaming Mom and Dad for everything...and take care of yourself because Mom and Dad can't seem to do anything right.
2006-08-01 22:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please find any job partime that you can earn your own money and can still finish your college so you don't need to depend on them in financially. You can move out, find an apartment and right friend to share room. Let your self who decide what the best thing for your self no others include your family. They just can give you advices but still you only who hold the key.
Good luck
2006-08-01 22:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out any way you can, stay with a friend, or a neighbor or even turn yourself in to the department of famlies and children if you are under 18 and let them put you in a foster home.
2006-08-01 22:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the time being pack your things and live with a friend till you can find a job to pay rent on a apartment that you could share with a friend....If the car is yours don't let him take it..he has no right to if it is yours...it is not your fault your parents have their flaws...G/l and best wishes..
2006-08-01 22:45:57 · answer #6 · answered by jennjenn09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go. theres never anything anyone can ever do right? i love with the same feeling, a little different though, mines more mental then physical. find a good friend via phone, and see if you can crash there for a while. or call the pigs. just a suggestion. hope all goes well
2006-08-01 22:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by Myke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're 18 call the police. This will be one of the very few times they'll actually help you, rather than giving you a ticket or something...
2006-08-01 22:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the car is yours, call the police because is grand theft auto. and also, i would move out ASAP! even if it means that you have to get 2 or 3 jobs to make it on your own and i would talk to your friends and mayby you guys can move in together as roomates.
2006-08-01 23:28:01 · answer #9 · answered by beckyschristine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are moving out just hang on til then, take comfort in thinking you're better than them. If you aren't moving out I would definitely try to - move in with a friend or something if you don't have the money
2006-08-01 22:46:33 · answer #10 · answered by Alex P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋