Does anybody else feel like they will never get married because they are ugly?

Question

I can never see myself ever getting married simply because I am very ugly. No woman would ever find me attractive. I have a big nose, a skinny face, a long neck, and balding. The fact that I may be alone for the rest of my life bothers me a lot, but I can't help it because I am ugly. Does anybody else feel like they will never get married because they are ugly?

Answer 1

Being "ugly" won't keep you from getting married, but lack of self esteem might...people who obviously have issues with themselves and don't think they are worthy of a partner, aren't likely to find one...like yourself...love yourself...know you are a kewl person and would be a great catch for some lucky girl...feel good about who you are and where you are in life...

...self confidence is very appealing...people want to be around those who exude confidence and self assurance (not arrogance)...I dated a guy (no lie) who was 5'6", had cystic acne scars on his face, chest, and back...he was NOT a handsome man, but he was so confident and happy with who he was, that women flocked to him...he never had a problem getting a date...and he was a very nice, thoughtful, and respectful guy...

So...make up your mind to switch gears and then do it...when you like you, other people will too!

Answer 2

Sug, I felt like this everyday of my life. I thought that I was destined to be alone and miserable for the rest of my life. However, almost 4 years ago the most wonderful man in the whole world walked into my life. I am not a gorgeous person. I don't get second looks. I'm less than average looking. However, beauty is only skin deep. I know that isn't very comforting, but that's the truth. God has someone out there for you. Go to a place where people have the same interests as you. I have put on weight since having my son, and my husband can make me feel like I should be America's Next Top Model. No one else would agree. I know that you think you may not be attractive, but there are women out there who like balding men. Don't get discouraged. When you see an attractive women that isn't married, approach her. If things seem to click, ask for her phone number, or if she'd like to grab something to eat. But hey!, don't forget us less than average looking girls! Remember, don't judge a book by it's cover. Just because they have a gorgeous outside, doesn't mean that they are a beautiful person on the inside. I wish you the best of luck, and will pray that God will send you your soulmate.

Answer 3

Don't even say that about yourself. I think your beautiful and i have'nt even seen u yet. Sometimes i feel im ugly, but life goes on...... One day you are going to find someone that loves you for you. Not because of how you look but your character, personality, sense of humor, and the way you make them feel. I know it's hard to not think about that stuff but always remember your not judge by your face or whats in your pants it's about the person you really are inside. And i like u already. I feel im never getting married too but your still young. And your life is'nt half over yet. Your princess will come any day now. So don't think about never getting married you will never know what happens between today and a couple of years. Love ya self. Cuz God do!

Answer 4

Look, you don't put yourself down if "You" think you are ugly. I know you aren't happy with your looks, but sometimes to a women looks do not matter. It's just the person inside that makes you an individual and unique. If you aren't happy with your body then go to a gym! Workout and get buff! Don't sit on the couch sobbing about "Oh I am never going to get married." ,or watching television. Do something that will benefit you and that you will be happy with.

Answer 5

Hey Dude, I see lots of hot girls with underpar looking dudes, I hear girls are less interested in how a guy looks and more about how they act. I would say work on your self confidence, as your name and manner suggests you think that you are a loser, and will therefor come off as a loser. Start doing stuff that makes you feel good and better about yourself, work on being manly, be the way you want, you can be the man without looking like brad pitt. It will be hard, but stop feeling sorry for yourself, observe other people, try new stuff, push yourself, take risks, take huge risks. Do the stuff that makes you feel alive. They will come to you.

Answer 6

You can get a better look for yourself by going to a good salon for a good makeover(facial,eyebrows done,hair treatment) a good store for clothes that are more flattering.Be a warm and genuine friend to everyone and they will see you as you really are. Smile and be happy and help others then you will not only be overly concerned about your looks but you will be better looking because of the love growing in your heart. Best wishes.

Answer 7

Yes I feel like that sometimes but other times I feel like it is just not meant to be for me. It is horrible because ALL my friends are either engaged or living with their boyfriends so as usual, in my case, I stand alone. At this point I have just given up. I am tired of being rejected. I do not want to try anymore and I will not...I know exactly how you feel.

Answer 8

I dont believe that. I use to date a guy just like you...But he had a great personality. There is no such thing as a ugly man. Man made that up. I think you have to do something about your self confidence first. The right person will come along..Just have faith.

Answer 9

If someone truly loves you then they'll marry you, not because of how attractive you are but because they're in love with you're personality and the person you are inside. Just be patient, and don't give up. There's someone out there for you.

Answer 10

I use to think that, but different instance. I got divorced after having 3 kids, which changed my body alot from premarriage body. It seemed like I would never find anyone else that would love me, but you know, I did. He thinks I am beautiful and loves me. There is alot of fish in the sea...and its a very big sea. It may take awhile, but hang in there, as my boyfriend says, Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. and when you find her, she'll love all of you inside and out. :)