2006-08-01 15:27:25 · 6 answers · asked by tulsagrl18 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i totally understand coz i 've been through this ... but let me tell u it's not the guys it's the world we r livin in that forces u to follow some standandars in order to be aknowledged ... although i do agree that it 'very superficiel to do such a thing , i still think that u shouldn't appologize to guys for being fat , on the contrary , u should work on ur self esteem coz i've always believed that the inner beauty appears on the face , i really wish i could tell this to myself but u know coz we r surrounded by thin women who r getting better opporutinied of jobs , love and success , it forces us to think that we have to lose those pounds in order to take their place . believe me , i've always thought that those extra pounds aren't just in our bodies ,it's in our minds too .... so maybe we should just do what we r supposed to and wait for Mr right coz i assure u that " the one " won't like to be with u for ur body or ur hair it's gonna be for everything u r and everything u r not just be patient and don't lose ur faith in God and in urself
2006-08-01 15:36:14 · answer #1 · answered by chocolate 90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry...there are more men out there than you think who like women with a little meat on their bones. I'm fat too...but I met a couple guys who liked me a lot BECAUSE I wasn't skinny. Where do you live? I live in San Diego, CA. and there are a bunch of men here who are that way. Come check it out. Good luck!
2006-08-01 22:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, there are nice guys out there for the larger girl.
Just be patient and be yourself!
2006-08-01 22:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by ladders_to_fire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoever thinks that is a doorknob.
its whats on the inside that matters.
2006-08-02 16:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry , mister right is around the corner....ok
2006-08-01 22:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by William E A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God knows he's out there,just be confident in yourself for once.
He'll be there soon!
2006-08-01 22:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by tex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋