Do you want to change anything about that person or do you like
them just the way they are.
2006-08-01 15:24:15 · 6 answers · asked by CraZyCaT 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should never go into a relationship trying to change the other person. The best thing you can do is talk to them about what you have a problem with and see if they want to change it themselves..otherwise, you can't change a person-they have to want to do it.
2006-08-01 15:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by Shanes_A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha...I used to look at guys as a project "How can I make this guy better." I changed my mind; it's too much work, and they never really do change. If they do it's only for a minute. :-p I've got someone now I love for exactlyhow he is and if there is something I want to change, I just hold my tongue.
2006-08-01 22:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have to admit that in my ex boy friend's case he was this mysterious guy who wouldn't tell anything concerning his life easily , he just preferred to keep those stuff hidden but right after becoming a couple he became more obvious , u know ... it was easy to understand him or to know what is going on in his mind ... coz it's like we 're the same person now so he isn't supposed to hide anything from me coz i'm not gonna criticize him or something .. u know
2006-08-01 22:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by chocolate 90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't change them at all..... if I wanted to change someone before I dated them, I wouldn't want to date them in the first place
2006-08-01 22:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by encore_theater_rox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wouldn't change a thing.. why would i want to be with someone who isn't theirself? i will be myself and wouldn't expect anything less!!!
2006-08-01 22:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should always accept someone for who they are
if we were all the same then that would be boring
2006-08-01 22:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by tiggermouse73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋