She always calls me by the wrong name, and never comes home before 4am. She always smells like Axe bodyspray. She always rolls her eyes at me. Am i missing something? She said she loves me though.
2006-08-01 15:23:08 · 39 answers · asked by derek_thacker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are ignoring warning signals that loud, you aren't doing yourself any favors.
Don't walk away from this relationship--RUN!
2006-08-01 15:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Love2Sew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright dude, this is why im here, Dr. Understand. First of all don't listen to anyone above me or under me, just listen up alright?
First of all you need know know how long has this been hapening? (Or how long do you think) Do not ever say anything about her like "Are you cheating on me?" You know, do not say anything like that to her.
Once you find out or think how long it has been hapening then here's your first move. If you really like her then you must spend more time with her.
Try to have her to have fun, and have her get her attention to you the whole time!
Once you've all had fun then ask her "Did you have fun?" If she waits for longer then 5-8 seconds then get suspish. Not too much for her to know.
This all takes time so thats why i am taking you step by step, i want to help you.
If she has a celular phone then get into it whenever you can without being caught. Look up in her history contacts and fnd a name that you do not know. Once you have, ask who that person is. If you haven't then lower your suspish.
*OPTION* Take time off work and try to spy on her (I know it's wrong but if you really like her you will do it)
Now i know all these things im saying is a lot to do but its love!
The last thing you should do is tell her how much you love her (If you do) and tell her that she is everything you want (If its true)
Another tip, you should tell her that you are going to some vacation or something out of town. When she believes you, aeither Hire "Cheaters" or some other detectives to follow her.
Well, i know this is alot for you to do, but it is the best way to do it.
If you don't want to go through all this trouble then you must ont love her at all and should not be unhappy if she is indeed cheating on you.
2006-08-01 15:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she might be. Even if she isn't cheating, she doesn't sound like a sincere girlfriend. Not spending enough time with you and rolling your eyes at you is not the way a girlfriend is supposed to act towards a boyfriend. I am a girl, and I am saying this sincerely, don't believe the "I love you"s. Both girls and boys sometimes use those words as a bandaid for a troubled relationship. I'm not saying thats how your girlfriend feels, but based on your description of her...she's a likely candidate. But its all up to you and your judgement. If she continues to act like this, I would definetely show her the door.
2006-08-01 15:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea she's cheating, but so what. Put on a condom and take sloppy seconds or thirds if she'll let you. Then cheat on her, get home at three and she'll never know. Just don't have any children and knock this crap off if you two can ever commit to each other.
PS: Wear Axe and you won't smell it on her.
2006-08-01 15:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh yeah. she's cheating and really doesn't care if you find out or not. she doesnt respect you if she is coming home smelling like axe. as for the 4 am thing that doesnt really matter. she could be getting her nookie at 4 in the afternoon and still wouldnt care if you knew or not. you must be taking care of home and she doesnt want to lose the stability. wake up guy!
2006-08-01 15:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy Texan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yea she cheating. If you're not going to look at the signs in your face. Then u need to be smacked right in the face.U better let her go before she brings u back a little nasty STD. so keep standing looking all stupid. Like u don't know the girl is cheating on u.
2006-08-01 15:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you are being honest here (because that sounds like a lot of BS to tolerate and then come here and ask stranger's opinions)....why don't you talk to her about it? As her why she calls you the wrong name...ask her who
If her answers dont' satisfy you, either leave or require that she does (depending on whose place it is)...doesn't sound kosher to me, whatever the excuses...
2006-08-01 15:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One question to you. Why haven't you left her yet ? Helloooo, the BELL is ringing, the sirens are sounding, the ambulance is riding by, the dog is barking, the rock done fell and hit your head ! SHE IS CHEATING and she don't love you wither. Also, she is not respecting you or your feelings. This isn't love at least from her side !
2006-08-01 15:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by MizzSweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats not cheating I dont know what is, If your girlfriend is double faced(has an attitude one sec and then loves you the next) THAT IS NOT A GOOD RELATIONSHIP i'm sorry, but you should break up w/ her Hope it turns out good!!
2006-08-01 15:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by jangarano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not missing anything buddy. The only thing you lack is physical proof. but if ya ask me not very many girls these days wear Axe. get rid of her before she does you.
2006-08-01 15:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by kari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of coarse she is, and she is probably just using you as for someone to fall back on when she can't get any from someone else, and using your money and your crib
part of this is your fault because you never go out with her and do the things she likes, sounds like you sit at home and watch the clock.
dump her and dump her fast
2006-08-01 15:33:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋