i just broke up with this guy i thought i loved, we had been going out for 2 years or more and we had already slept with each other many times, i need someone to talk to and what do i do?
2006-08-01 15:02:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have a talk with that person
2006-08-01 15:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by preciosalabella 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should pick yourself up by the back end and dust yourself off and go on..Pray to God and ask him to help you take a different coarse of dirrection.. be a type fo person that is open to anything but yet walk with caution...and now with this breakup you will less to wear your heart on your sleeve,,so that it will get trashed..take your time in getting into a relationship...your smart..you know what to do... you have been fulfilling each other sexually and maybe you think you can get him back..but men are so different..they will go where they know its garuanteed..why even get on that emotional roller coaster..it isnt worth it for you..unless you dont care...if he uses you..but that is up to you if you can handle it...Take the bull by the horn and just say No more we broke up and its over..tell him what you think..then move on ..NEXT!!! and besides they are like buses one passes every 15 minutes..hehehhee..and I am sure men say the same thing about women...
2006-08-01 15:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by ck1_content 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats really tough. If you feel like you need to talk to someone, phone a friend. There's not much else you can do except give it time. Somethings I did was to collect up all the junk he gave me and stash it in the back of the closet. Also I wrote him a letter about how mad I was (but I didn't send it). Both of those things helped a little, but distraction is really the best bet until the pain fades.
2006-08-01 15:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by smileyangel22688 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your on IM me and I will try to help.....but if not...your on a good start by " i thought I loved" past tense is good. But dont try to get over him too fast...
Im me if you need help.....
but just sleeping, crying and yes even grieving over a broken relationship is a good thing.. it also depends who broke it off
2006-08-01 15:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by SEXY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it take time to get over this sort of break up. if you can confide in a good friend that would be a good idea you need to vent yr frustration. go for long walks alone that's really good. this gives you time to clear yr thoughts.
2006-08-01 15:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your break up. What do you want to talk about? Do you have a friend you trust that you can share of feelings with? If you don't make talk to a counselor to help you through it. Please don't talk to him though as suggested by one of the posters. Be strong and move on.
2006-08-01 15:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by Shay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging from your nickname, I'd say get drunk and sleep with as many others guys as you can and take pictures then send them to him.
2006-08-01 15:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by armytao2k3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl just put on keyshia cole cd and listen to the whole thing!!!
2006-08-01 15:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Betty B♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to your friends for support because they know best.
2006-08-01 15:06:17 · answer #9 · answered by crazedsilversteinfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbate
alot
2006-08-01 15:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋