Deadbeat Father?

Question

My parents dated for 7 years but broke up soon after my mother got pregnant. The day I was born my grandfather on my mothers side called my fathers mother but she slammed the phone down saying I was not her sons child. A few months later a paturnity test was done and I proved to be his daughter so he agreed to pay child support. I did not see him or hear from him at all until I was 14. He came over my house drunk telling me that his mother wanted to have dinner with me. I told him I would go if someone else would take me-I would not get in the car with a drunk driver but this angered him. He left and never came back. I found out through the internet that he has passed on. I tried to contact the family to get a picture so I know what he looks like but they never respond. I found another one of his children (family has nothing to do with him either) and they put up a myspace page trying to help kids who have deadbeat fathers. I signed on. Now I fear his family will find out.

I just heard that they left a message but I cannot bring myself to read it.

Answer 1

Why do you care what they think? They didn't care enough about you to be apart of your life when you were born and through out.. do what you want maybe someday you can reconnect with your half siblings and have a great relationship

Answer 2

What is the myspace page? I would like to sign up too.

Answer 3

i found a website which is similar to myspace, http://www.friendscyberclub.com/ this website has all the features of my space like the photo upload, view pictures and profiles, forum, chat, message board, also there is a leader board, just like this one, see your name on the leader board, and you can also get to the top of the leader board, this site has both the features of yahoo answers and myspace,

Answer 4

I wouldn't worry about it. MySpace is so huge.

Answer 5

Me too..i want to sign up too....... and dont worry about it my space is huge............... there are so many people there..