my bf has been trying to go there but im not sure if i should let him.
2006-08-01 14:43:59 · 10 answers · asked by Kelli S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love him, do it. Only if you want to. I mean, at some point in your lifem you will have to and there is a first to everything. Let me tell you that it REALLY DOES HURT(!!!) But if you don't do it, you will never get used to it. This is completely up to you though. It is your body and whatever us people Y! Answers have to tell you will not matter because it is completely up to you. I say go for it, because no matter what it is going to hurt. If you feel and the reason you are asking this isn't only because of the physical pain, don't feel pressured to do something you don't want to.
2006-08-01 14:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not if you do it right. The keys are trust, relaxation, and lubrication. You must trust him to take it very slow. If you can trust him, then you can relax the outer and inner muscles of the anus. Lubrication will make it all easier. It might be better for you if the initial penetration takes place when you are on top. Then, you can control it and will be able to relax more.
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2006-08-01 14:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurts, yes. I recommend you save anal for your husband when you get married one day. I mean, it's pretty intense.
2006-08-01 14:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by Taffi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES it HURTS. And if you are ever unsure of doing anything sexually, DON'T. You can always change your mind and do it after more thought, but you can't go back on an uninformed decision.
2006-08-01 14:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by CarnivalBorn 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just a little but if u go with it and make the sounds its not that bad
2006-08-01 14:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the first time it hurts a little ..but not that much.
2006-08-01 14:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh just let him i bet it doesnt hurt you'll proubally have fun
2006-08-01 14:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by cute chick 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uh yeah it hurts
2006-08-01 14:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by *Krista* 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ull never know til u try
2006-08-01 14:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by Sniper1409 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never! not only to i find it gross but i dont see hwo it would be a sexually pleasing...
2006-08-01 14:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by sarahdancer123 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋