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my sister who is sixteen is the "perfect one" in my family
so me and my other sister or left out on everything
were both 14 and shes 17

2006-08-01 14:39:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

she 17 not sixteen

2006-08-01 14:41:24 · update #1

i want to do something mean to her

2006-08-01 14:46:19 · update #2

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2006-08-02 10:11:38 · update #3

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2006-08-02 10:11:59 · update #4

19 answers

What is the question? That doesn't make sense

2006-08-01 14:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

She's 17. You're 14. You can hardly expect your parents to treat you exactly the same. If you are looking for more parental time or attention, tell your parents that you feel you need more time and attention, without bringing your sister into the equation. If you are looking for more privileges, earn them by showing your parents that you are mature, responsible and reliable. None of this has anything to do with your older sister. Every kid always feels that his or her sibling has some advantage they don't. The good thing about having an older sibling is that they pioneer the way. The privileges that they had to fight for at each stage can be yours more easily, if you play your cards right.

PS Doing something mean to your sister will only demonstrate to your parents how immature you are. Bad idea.

2006-08-01 21:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by just♪wondering 7 · 0 0

A little confusing but i think i got it.................you and your twin sister who are 14 are feeling left out by your parents b/c they favor your 17 yr old sister b/c she is perfect? And you want to get even with her?

First of all: two wrongs dont make a right. You should talk to your parents and tell them that you two feel left out and you dont think its right that they favor her over you.

second: you should try and do better yourselves. Try and do things "perfect" and see if you get the same attention.

Other than that, there really isnt much you can do. Just wait for her to move out.

2006-08-01 21:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by dawn w 1 · 0 0

wait until you are grown up you will be suprised.
My perfect sister is not so perfect. her house is messy her kids are out of control and she tells me I was the one our parents liked best. there are three of us girls and we all saw one of the others as the perfect or spoled child
she may get more or she can do more things ... she is older it is her right just like you will do at 17 but I bet she also has more responsibility

2006-08-01 21:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by G L 4 · 0 0

I don't know , what the facts are.She sounds like she is setting a good example.You and your Sisters turn will come soon.Sounds like their preparing her ,when she leaves Home.

2006-08-01 21:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by Rather be dead than red... 6 · 0 0

Ohh, OK! Now I get it! If she does it on purpose just don't talk to her or be mean to her all the time, or I don't know! But if it's not her fault and it's you parents! You should talk to them about how you guys feel, or if they are the type of parents that don't listen just don't listen to them or I don't know!

2006-08-01 21:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by Dan =] 3 · 0 0

get a friend to write a pretend note to her from a boyfriend saying how good she is doing oral sex and is looking foward to going all the way....then leave it in the washing in her clothes where ur mum can find it

2006-08-01 22:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

exactly what are you left out of???
I worked at a summer camp and my parents took my 3 younger brother and sisters. and thought i was missing out. but then i realized i had fun.

so you are twins at 14yr?? and your older sister is 17yr??

2006-08-01 21:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0 0

The middle child is the perfect one? WOW

Put snakes in her bed (dead ones. lol)
Put poo poo in her shoes (PU)
Get some "deer scent" from a hunting store & spray it on her clothes.

2006-08-01 21:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by Xtal 4 · 0 0

well, i would try to get on her "good side" so when ur family wants to do something then she will say "what about u and ur sis". it is a chance, but dont be a slave to her...if that doesnt work, then work harder in school and try to be better then her... Good Luck :)

2006-08-01 21:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by Dani 2 · 0 0

Gang up on her and get her in trouble. That's what me and my brother did with my older sister. Then I blamed all of it on him so she could beat him up.

2006-08-01 21:44:12 · answer #11 · answered by ♥c0c0puffz♥ 7 · 0 0

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