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This guy has flirted with me before and then was mean. Then just started acting really friendly. Not in a flirty way. Asking me questions that weren't personal. Felt like he's looked into my eyes and down at my lips. But that could be imagination. I was on vacation for a week. When I came back. He came over to my desk to hand me work and he just stood there. So I tried to make personal conversations. He acted really weird, like he didn't want to and nervous. Scratching under his chin, ect. Then the next day when i saw him he caught mye eye I was walking toward him he looked at me really oddly. Like he didn't want to look at me. But later on snuck up on me and just kept smiling and looking and me for a few minutes. now he's ignored me for a week doesn't even look my way. Is there something wrong with me does he think I'm ugly. He does look at other girls that I think are prettier then me. This is really hurting me!!!!

2006-08-01 14:30:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I think I also did something similar to a girl (who once said she liked me) and whom I love a lot more than I can explain. I am not mean and I never talk harshly with girls. My problem is that I am very shy and I can’t express to a girl that I love her. So she probably got the feeling that I didn’t like her (now more than anything in the world, I want her to be my girlfriend). You wrote that he acted nervously— that says a lot to me because I also get nervous when having personal conversations with girls and since I don’t have what it takes to say from the very beginning that I love her, I desperately look for ways to hint later to her that I like her, but it probably often gets misinterpreted by her as something else. I don’t have an explanation for why he didn’t look at you: I also for a short time didn’t look explicitly at that girl I love; I was just too shy. I don’t think you should be bothered by his looking at other girls because guys look at every girl: that’s just how we are. He's playing hard to get; I think I was too even though I didn't mean to.

2006-08-01 14:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. anonymous 3 · 0 0

No honey, he finds nothing wrong with you. He acts like he likes you but is playing it cool. He looks at other girls because he is attracted to the opposite sex, which is normal,not because he finds anything wrong with you. When a guy does not like you, he does not bother with you-period. My advice is to play it cool and ignore him right back. He will come around if he really likes you. When he does, be friendly but let him take the lead. In the mean time, check out other guys so you are not at his mercy. Guys take advantage of a girl that is too focused on them. If he gets jealous let him do something about it. Best of luck!!! Keep your chin up

2006-08-01 21:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by Wildfire 3 · 0 0

This is bizarre behavior whichever way you slice it. Ask him for a cup of coffee and find out what's going on. It doesn't have to be a date. Just say: ' Do you want to grab a cup of coffee?' If you don't do something the uncertainty will drive you mad.

2006-08-01 21:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0 0

Do you know anything about him? Perhaps he is married or in a relationship and his come-on-back-off is his guilt for knowing better....If not, he is probably just shy and doesn't how to proceed. You must learn to never make it "all about you". That only leads to insecurity and self doubt. People react and very few really know why.

2006-08-01 21:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by knowledgeisgood 3 · 0 0

sounds like hes playing hard to get. forget it and just act as you normally do he will start hanging around again. he probably thinks you had so much fun on vacation and thinks you have met someone

2006-08-01 21:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why are you hurt ? I don't see why you should be. You need
to toughen up girl ! Lock your doors at night, cause he could be
a stalker weirdo....( kiddin ). Just go about your merry little way.
Don't let him rain on your parade girlfriend !!!!!! Stay Strong....

2006-08-01 21:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0 0

hun, i think he is insecure, he does not know what he wants so, you should just talk to him tell him to be mature enough to sit and listen to you, then you will find out for sure what his problem is, i hope this helps, chao!

2006-08-01 21:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by Kelli S 1 · 0 0

maybe someone had something about you to im and now hes thinking that hat was said is true...

2006-08-01 21:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by Quasar1 3 · 0 0

hard to get...is the game. Play it with him

2006-08-01 21:33:23 · answer #9 · answered by mymy knows best =] 2 · 0 0

he's a BIG JERK ....i think you should IGNORE him.......and check out some other guys who don't do those kinds of stuff and are REAL GENTLEMEN

2006-08-01 21:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by Lizzie B 2 · 0 0

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