why do we have to love someone and then letting go when they did something not good or if they make some mistakes is it the way we will know if they truely love us when they comeback to you?
2006-08-01 13:59:56 · 16 answers · asked by eumiar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
life.
2006-08-01 14:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that may not be the person for you. True all people make mistakes but when someone is constantly making the same one we sometimes have to let the go. We tend to hold on to things that God is trying to get us to let go. Women really have that problem sometimes. We love hard, and tend not to see that a person is not good for us.
2006-08-01 21:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by ~daTexasPrincess~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah ...Ok let's see that's not exactly what that means you see when you love someone letting them go means letting them do what they need to in life and there safe return to you every day means they are comming back home to you because they want to not because they have to. The idea of letting them go after they cheat ya that's a good idea to but just rememeber once they walk out the door way close the door pack your stuff and move on to someone who can stay loyal.
2006-08-01 21:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love someone, you will be able to overlook all the mistakes the person has made. Not so much of pretend not to know or acknowledge but it's about forgiving.
Once you can forgive, settle it within yourself that you'll never bring it up as a 'debating' point during your quarrels to compare who had done more wrong.
If you really love someone, you will not wanna lose him/her. But please, don't be so silly to hang on if he/she keeps making the same mistake. Don't be taken for granted. :)
2006-08-02 10:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by DumbUglyBoring 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I loved someone who I had had to let go and that's because he was engaged to another woman. I knew that I could not make him happy cause if I did He wouldnt be marrying someone else right? I told him that I loved him and had to let him go he was o.k with it but 2 weeks later I get a text I LOVE YOU AND I WANT U IN MY LIFE. so yes when they do come back it means true love but are they willing to change their ways.
2006-08-01 21:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love someone, you will be able to forgive them for the mistake they make. The most important thing to me is tt if I really love someone, I always wish her to be happy. Sometimes it is not an easy decision to let your love one go but if they are not happy when they are with us, we should learn to let them go and find their own happiness.
If one day they comeback to u again, you will learn to treasure them and appreciate them. That is the truth happiness tt we are looking for.
2006-08-02 12:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know why people do that. Its just a common mistake I guess. Sometimes even when a person loves you they wont come back to you. They may just figure that its best for the both of you if they just stay away.
~Rickeisha
2006-08-01 21:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by Rickeisha AKA Keisha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People come and go in our lives. Fated to meet but not fated to be together. We all make mistakes and if we all know how to forgive and forget, do we have to let them go?
2006-08-03 05:57:10 · answer #8 · answered by Lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im kinda in that situation.he left 3 months ago.all he said was he had alot of things on his mind and needed space to get his mind straight.we were together for almost 7 years.i guess if he finds that he still loves me hell be back.i hope.letting go is not easy i still havent done it.i still wear my engagment ring.any other girl would have pawned it a long time ago.i cant let go.if you wanna talk, tell me your situation.breeze28tn@yahoo.com
2006-08-01 21:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by breeze28tn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
please listen to my words. If you love someone you fight for them, die for them,spend time with them, cry. You assume letting them go is the best choice, but that may only be a foolish idea. You probalby want them to beg for you and thats not nice. whatever it may be. its up to you.
2006-08-01 21:21:39 · answer #10 · answered by Wisdom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love somebody, and they love you, they never go away. Don't wait for anybody to come back.
2006-08-01 21:02:42 · answer #11 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋