I contacted a beautiful 26 yr old blonde female on "match" website. Accroding to her profile she lives Cody, WY. She replied to my initial message by asking me to write her to her private e-mail account (to which I did). Now her English wasn't very good so I thought she was born somewhere outside of US. Anyway, after exchanging three e-mails, I found out that she lives in Russia. On her 13th email, she suggests we meet in person in Europe or elsewhere. On her 14th email, she said she went to see a travel agent so that she can come visit me here in US. I replied her 14th email by saying we are moving too fast and that we should not meet for now. On her last (15th, this morning) e-mail, she still insist on meeting me.
This actually concerns me because I am now thinking she might just want to come to US. Afterall, I am just an average 25 yr old single asian american. A very attractive girl like her can pick any guy in the world. Why me?
What do you think? Any suggestions?
2006-08-01 13:54:30 · 19 answers · asked by Dr Love 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-08-02 20:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer is sooo crystal clear. You are a 25 year old single Asian American...American being the 'key' word. She's from Russia and she's looking for an American husband...so that in time, she can become an American citizen. And at that time, she will leave you...I hate to be so cruel like that, but its true. Its very common for Russian women to want to marry American men or European men...they want out of Russia...I know a man who met a Russian woman and they fell in 'love' and married....they stayed married for 8 years....she came to America to live, was educated and the day after she received her American citizenship, her husband went home to find out that all her belongings were gone...and a few weeks later he received divorce papers. Trust me...shes looking for an American husband and you are IT.
2006-08-01 21:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by irishME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's willing to pay for the ticket and come to USA, then maybe you could meet somewhere (not take her back to your house) but go out somewhere nice to a hotel or a show or something. Once you see her in person and know her a little better, then maybe back to your house. If she's just wanting to come to the USA, then okay, don't marry her and she won't become a citizen so it will do her no good.
2006-08-01 21:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by scarsoflife8282 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey.... STAY AWAY! People in Third World Countries would do ANYTHING to obtain "The American Dream" as long as they come to United States LEGALLY, their purpose it is done.... Don't put yourself in a position that ANYONE will use you. Good Luck!
2006-08-01 22:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by SugarBombom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! It's too early in this cyber relationship to spend thousands of dollars to meet someone you just met. If she cares for you, she would understand. As far as I can tell, it sounds more like she wants to come to the USA. Unless she plans on payin her own way, then forget about it. And never spend time self-doubting yourself and whether your worthy of her beauty. If she is as pretty on the inside, as she is on the outside, she will like you for yourself and not take advantage of you.
2006-08-01 21:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by Chingona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a liar. What' she going to lie about next? Sounds to me like she wants a free ticket to American citizenship. Just about the same thing happened to my brother-in-law with a Russian woman. In my opinion you should drop her like a bad habit before she gets you wound around her finger.
2006-08-01 21:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by Patience 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok for starters think u should nt pick up women or men on the net... maybe get to know them buy playing games and just chatting nothing to do with match making get to know the personality at least...dont talk about hooking up for a long time ...
2006-08-01 20:59:57 · answer #7 · answered by shorty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all how much into detail about her personal life did you discus here i suspect this broad has some baggage in her country like maybe kids or, something is wrong here with this picture shes too anxious too just dump on you, are you really ready too assume reponsiblity for this girl if she shows up at your door stepp?? suppose you dont like her, and she comes clunking on your door, and says hy honey here iam, what if you dont really like her and she says sorie honey get your wallet out your paying my freight back, etc, theres just too much baggage with this broad i can sense itt, etc
2006-08-01 21:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are getting smarter......DUH!!! Why you??? Because you are responding to her. For a change.....give her a hard luck story and see what happens Lost all my money in the stock market and have to move in with my parents etc.....). Another thing.....how do you know that that is her real photo??? Hey, pal.......give it up.....forget it. You are being trapped. You will reap what you sow.
2006-08-01 21:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She lied in her profile. She is bad news. She may not even be the girl in the photos. Who knows.
2006-08-01 21:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋