what should i do?

Question

i have a little sister and she is evil.when my mom gose to work.
she turns evil.she comes in my room and bangs on the door like she is the police. then start yell like she is crazy.and i tell her to got out she tells me she dont have to get out if she dont want to. and when my mom calls to check on us my sister gets the other phone and talks over me.so my mom only hears what she has to say.then when my mom comes home i am geting yell at for being "mean" to my sister. and my sister is 11 and i am 15.

Answer 1

I've got 4 younger siblings, and when we were growing up and they acted like that I found the best thing to do was ignore them. I believe they only do it for attention, and when they don't get attention they get bored and leave. Bribery is also another option you could explore. Good luck with the annoying little sister.

Answer 2

Find a time when you able to speak to your mother when you will not be interupted by your sister. Maybe, away from home to insure privacy. I think it's awful what is happening. It can be all squared away, however, once your mother hears the FULL story. Good luck. Stop this now before you do something you will SURELY regret....do NOT hit your sister. First of all because she doesn't deserve that and could get seriously hurt. Second of all, because then your mom won't listen to you,then.

Answer 3

Have you sat your mom down and explained this pattern? Try that, so she doesn't get mad at you. During a calm time, quietly and calmly explain to her what goes on and ask her what you should do about it, and explain that you weren't doing anything wrong.

If that doesn't help, try to find out why your sister does this.

Maybe she just wants to hang out with you, and since you're in your room, she feels you're locking her out.

Try spending some time with her: play games, prepare food, dance to music, or even watch TV.

Thinking of her as evil is not going to help.

The more I think about it, the more I think that she thinks YOU are being mean, by not spending time with her.

After you've established a pattern of spending time together, then you can negotiate with her for some time to yourself, too.

Answer 4

You could always get a tape recorder. Record the whole day with your sister and when your Mom gets home, have her listen to it. Also, you could tell your Mom you would like to talk to her alone sometime. Just tell her how you feel and see what happens. Sometimes it's hard for Mom to understand what's going on when they don't see it. Good luck!

Answer 5

You are being left there to take care of her, so think ahead of time, and have a project for both of you to share in. She doesn't want to be left alone, and the only way she see's to get your attention is to be a brat. Maybe get a game or invite her into your room to get online and let her be involved. The only other thing I can think of is to maybe have her invite one of HER friends over while your mom is gone, so she has something to do besides bother you. I hope this helps.

Answer 6

11 year olds shouldnt do that, i say talk to your mom when your sis have a play date or something. Believe me, my moms boyfriends son makes me think of suiside, but he is not as bad as your sister. I no thats not a comfort, but thats not what you need right now. Talk to who ever you are comfortable with about it. But a recorder or a pen and pencil will do just fine to make your mom see the truth.

Answer 7

TALK TO YOUR MOM--sit down and have mom tell both of you exactly what behavior is expected and when she calls to check on you ask mom shouldnt she talk to you first then your sister.

sisters always bug each other when parents are not home.
i have 4 older than me and 3 younger--3 older sisters, and we never got along as kids. but better has we reached age 20.

Answer 8

I hav an 11 year old sis to.Shes annoying to.When she goes to sleep go and talk to your mom.And if she dnt listen then,let ur mom catch the lil brat in the act like call ur mom before ur sis annoys u hide the fone to where ur mom can hear and when she annoys u act all nice when u talk 2 her so u wont get in trouble.But she will.Hope it all goes well!

Answer 9

This sounds like a story my mom use to tell me when I was a little girl. I had a brother that use to babysit my other brothers and was so cruel to them. Well mom and dad didn't believe them that he was being mean to them. So what did they do? They got a tape recorder and taped him and guess what??? It worked!!! He was is so much crap....lol. So try that or something similiar. Good luck!

Answer 10

Got a recorder?? So you can tape her but dont let your sister know that your doing that. Then when your mum comes home play it to her. That way she will find out the truth.