What do white women like most about black men?

Question

I ask this because it seems like there are more white females dating outside their race now than any other time. What is it that you like about us?

No barney. im not gonna say that you guys have small organs. actually that question had nothing to do with sex. if you would have read better, you would have noticed that i said nothing that relates to white men or anything sex related for that matter. have a blessed day.

Answer 1

Wow, you got some really ignorant answers to this question. But I guess that's to be expected when asking something related to race. =P I had to laugh so hard at the guy who said that the only white women who date black guys are the ones who white men want nothing to do with. WOW. Someone sure has a fragile ego. It's okay man, you guard that thing. Someone has to right? *rolls eyes*

ANYway, as you already know, I am with a black man... and have dated several before. I have also dated some white guys. Truth be told though, most white guys seem a little intimidated by me. Not all, but most. I am a beautiful, intelligent, smart-*** woman with an incredibly gentle and giving side that I only show to those who are worthy. (I know you know all this already, haha. But I'm saying it for the benefit of these schmuks.) Oh and Barney I'm definitely NOT fat. I'm 5'10", 135 lbs, 36C 26 39. You're awfully bitter though. Sounds to me like somebody got burned...

Anyway though, here's the truth about what I often run into with white guys:

1) Pretty boys with nice bank accounts who have the confidence to approach me, but don't have the moral fabric or depth to keep me interested. They also sometimes think they're gonna get sumthin cheap from me just cause they have money and I don't. Think again, darlin. Besides, I'm just really not attracted to that look or that lifestyle. Trying to keep up with the Jones' is a waste of life.

2) Scroungy boys who have NO money, NO responsibility, and NO aspirations but think they can "connect" with me because I don't have money either. I'll be friends with these people, but I'm trying to move up in life at least to the level of "comfortable." If they're not comin along for the ride, then bye-bye.

3) Guys who fall in the middle, and I can be friends with... but seem to only be interested in women who are a little more subdued than me. I have the passion and gentleness to be an awesome lover, but that also means I have passion in other areas too. Not everyone can handle that.

Of course these are all generalizations, and not everyone fits neatly into one of these boxes. But I'll tell ya this: Many do. And there are black guys who fall into those categories too. It's just that for me, I've always been more attracted to them... and they more attracted to me. I can't completely explain why.

But thankfully the guy I'm with now seems just right. He knows what it's like to go without, so he's realistic. But he also works VERY hard, has clear ideas about providing for a family, and is not plannin to stay down and out. That's what I want, and I just happened to find it in him. So sue me.

So with all that said, not *all* black guys would be right for me. And I'm not one of those who likes every black guy she sees. And I don't like a person BECAUSE he is black. I think that would be highly insulting to him, in the same way it would be insulting to me if someone liked me BECAUSE I'm white.

To the chick who said we want to have light-skinned babies and think it's okay to say "*****" and wear baby phat... you really need to check yourself. I'm scared to death of having babies PERIOD, no matter what color they are. LOL. I don't think it's "cool" to say "*****." As for wearing baby phat, who are you? The fashion police? Well if I can't wear baby phat, then you can't wear Old Navy or the Gap. LOL. I'm sure Kimora is perfectly happy with the money she gets, no matter who it's coming from. ;)

And for your information, my man and I can go from professional to casual at the drop of the dime. It's really pretty self-defeating if you have an attitude that black people can only dress "street" and it's like an identity or something. So "PUH-leeze..." right back atcha. LOL.

Answer 2

Statically of Black men who marry most effective 7% follow miscegenation and best 5% are with White females. The information are cut back amongst Black ladies. So my point is if 93p.Cof Black men are marrying Black ladies why would I be concerned with the 7% that don't? And as you additionally stated the records are even slash amongst Black ladies. I am for the maintenance and merchandising of Black love, Black solidarity and the Black household. I don't care why White men are not marrying Black women. Contrary to the sensationalized media the united states Census speaks for itself. Additionally i will say for my part I don't know any Black/White interracial couples individually and i know many married couples. In fact simply this year I witness many weddings amongst my associates and loved ones that had been between Black men and Black ladies. So again why will have to I be concerned with one of these small group of people?

Answer 3

Statically of Black guys who marry simplest 7% train miscegenation and simplest five% are with White females. The facts are lessen amongst Black females. So my factor is that if 93percentof Black guys are marrying Black females why could I be worried with the 7% that do not? And as you additionally stated the facts are even lessen amongst Black females. I'm for the upkeep and advertising of Black love, Black harmony and the Black household. I do not care why White guys aren't marrying Black females. Contrary to the sensationalized media The US Census speaks for itself. Also I can say for my part I have no idea any Black/White interracial couples for my part and I recognise many married couples. In truth simply this yr I witness many weddings amongst my peers and household that had been among Black guys and Black females. So once more why must I be worried with this kind of small organization of men and women?

Answer 4

Hey Homeboy let me explain a couple of things to you, first of all the only white gurls with black guys are the ones white guys want nothing to do with. You know the type white, 500 lbs, ugly as hell. Now your probably going to say something like "o its because u guys are bad in bed or we have small cocks" something like that. Maybe its because women like the fact that that black men can consistently hangout and snuggle in the morning instead of going to work like the rest of American society ! Take it easy Bro keep pounding those 500 pounders

Answer 5

Barney is kind of right, most of these allegid women are the ones white men wouldnt want. Black men really dont have a lot to offer, its science!

Answer 6

Its because they want cute light skinned babies with the black men and then they wanna parade around acting like theyre a part of the black community and think they can say whatever they want about black people and use the n- word like its ok cuz they kids are mixed and try to act hard and talk like they from da streetz. And then think they can use black hair products and get their sh*t braided too.
And walk around wearing baby phat and all that. oh please!

Answer 7

wow...all these other ppl are like rly retarded & they have no fricken idea what they are talking about...im a white girl thatsattracted to black guys and its for none of the reasons that those idiots are talking about...i dont really know y...i just always have been and im not like a fat ugly girl either...and i have been asked out by plenty of white guys...i just like black guys better

Answer 8

I like black men who aren't thugs and broke. Black men who have class and dignity are also good.

I like white men who also aren't thugs and broke. White men who have class and dignity are also good.

I like ..... it kinda keeps going on like that.

The point is, I don't lower my standards for anyone...and also like to be perpetually, and pleasantly surprised with wonderful ideas, things, places and feelings.

Answer 9

They love chocolate. And I guess another reason would be because you guys have really large, bigger than average... feet.

Answer 10

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http://www.newnation.org/NNN-Black-on-White.html

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