My exgirlfriend broke up with me a month ago.weve been together for three years.After two weeks she calls me and wants to have coffee.Ever since then we see each other alot, but when i ask her to be my girlfriend again she wont.She calls me all the time but has been going out alot to.I am always there for her when she needs me.I need to know how to reverse this were i can get her back.She says when shes around me she has such a good time and when she dosent see me she misses me.What should i do.Ive been so stress out about this its not good for my health.I just took her to hawaii before we broke up and it was beautiful.
2006-08-01 13:21:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know man, maybe she just will never like you like that... I don't know how girls do that
2006-08-01 13:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your GF is carrying some sort of a problem by herself and she doesn't want to bother you with it.. Try to ask her if she have any problems but don't force her to tell you if she indeed have a problem. I really don't see why she's starting to act like the way you said since you did say that after your Hawaii trip, nothing bad ever happened.. It could be that she is doing some self-reflection and in one way or another thought that it's better that you two become friends.. Try to clear things up with her.. Ask her if she is happy with your current set-up (as friends). As much as possible, as for the reason as to why you two broke-up in the first place.. Hope I helped ^-^
2006-08-01 20:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just needed some space. From what you have written. .. sounds like she still loves you /cares for you quite alot. Its hard to have a relationship like that for 3 years and end it all abruptly. I would say. . give her some time. let her have her space.. if she goes out.. then you should too. Dont waste your time sitting around waiting for her (unless thats what you want to do). There is nothing really that you can do to get her to come back. She will do so if thats what she wants to. Just be yourself.. try not to stress so much (hard to do I imagine) and just be patient. I have always heard that if you love someone.. let them go.. if its meant to be.. they will come back to you. Good luck. Sounds like you two do have a great friendship.. and that is wonderful.
2006-08-01 20:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She kind of sounds like a drama queen, that's not a totally bad thing but it can bring a lot of grief. All I can say is don't give her power over you by letting her break your heart like this. It might be a good idea to question if she is so wonderful then, why does she treat you so hurtfully.
It sounds like there's more to this story. Regardless, it's never good to let an ex beat up on you!
Best wishes,
Nerdtron3000
2006-08-01 20:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by nerdtron3000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew a guy I did this to when I was younger. I always felt bad cause I knew he liked me a lot. I really did care about him. The problem was that because I was not ok I didn't know how to love a guy who was good and sweet to me. Later when I took care of my issues I understood things better and always wished I could go back and tell him that it wasn't him, it was me.
I hope this helps you.
2006-08-01 20:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by Pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, when she wont commit to being your boyfriend, she doesn't know what to say, ask her to be honest with you. Dont rush her into anything, i did the same thing and it was because i really liked the person, but i needed some room to breathe. Just let her breathe and im sure she'll come back to ya. Good luck!
2006-08-01 20:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY TO SAY BUT WOMEN GET FED UP WITH US MEN A LOT IF YOU ARE DOING THE SAME THING DAY AFTER DAY YOU HAVE TO SHOW HER YOU HAVE MOVED ON FIND YOURSELF A NEW GIRL AND WITH THIS ONE BE SPONTANIOUS AND AND MAKE SURE EVERY DAY IS DIFFERENT, THE ODD TIME TELL HER YOU LOVE HER BUT NOT ALL THE TIME GIVE HER A LITTLE PRESENT NOW AND AGAIN AND THE ODD SINGLE ROSE OK BUT NO BUNCHES
2006-08-01 20:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by bobadam_90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still loves you, try to ignore her calls, act busy when you do talk to her, dont ask her back out, do the things you did that made you happy before you met her that attracted her to you and dont act like your doing anything for her, do it for yourself. Your self confidence and ablility to move on will remind her why she liked you in the first place or will turn her on and she might make a move on you, be patient and play it cool.
2006-08-01 20:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by Rasalibre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is confused right now and she knows deep in her heart that she loves you and that you guys should be together but she is unable to commit right now. Come out and ask her why she does not want to be more than friends anymore.
2006-08-01 20:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by Brooke 32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she only wants you around when it is convient for her...Hun I hate to tell you this because i know it hurts but you need to move on. Stop being so available for her!!!! Have other plans when she calls, stop going out with her!!!!! It sounds like she is taking advantage and stringing you along, and it is wrong to play with your emotions like that esspecially when you still care so deeply for her. Good Luck!!!
2006-08-01 20:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all u said she broke up with u so there must be a reason and once u figure out wat it is and fix it she might want u until than find some other chick she found other guys try do the same with chicks though!
2006-08-01 20:30:56 · answer #11 · answered by I'LL LUV RICH BOYS 4 U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋