My spouse and I practice mutual non-monogamy and we are both very much in love and very happy. However, whenever either of us meets someone new, it seems that they are put off when they learn that the other knows about the person we are dating. The b/f or g/f in question would rather be a partner in cheating, rather than have the relationship known and accepted. Why is this??? Neither my spouse or I will cheat. We tell each other everything. Why can't our other-loves be as honest?
2006-08-01 12:57:29 · 6 answers · asked by loriahaven 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is a new thing for them and are taken aback when they learn that you know about them and are so used to the idea of cheating that they would rather stick to that...they need to open their minds and try something new
i just think its the people you are dating, most people would love to be in an open relationship like you have
try searching for your lovers else where
2006-08-01 13:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... I don't know, but I'd love to be yer bf on the side!!! that would be awsome... all the fun, none of the respnsibility!!! Oh, by the way, I've always felt the same way, people should have fun (new c#ck/p#ssy is nice..lol) and it really spices up the sex life with yer partner!!!!
2006-08-01 20:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by mrbubbachowpuss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you're coming from. It would be nice to have everyone honest. I have people lie to me everyday. Little do they know that I know the truth behind their lies.
2006-08-01 20:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it turns them on under the sheets.
2006-08-01 20:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by hottoddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, you will sleep better........
2006-08-01 20:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by eliz5970 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats weird, idk. maybe they get a rush from being dishonest
2006-08-01 20:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋