It gets me mad because he knows what he did was wrong, i always have to tell him "i think you owe me an apology". He says its hard for him to say im sorry but it gets me mad
2006-08-01 12:54:53 · 18 answers · asked by Dancer23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry, I need help and I love you are the 3 hardest phrases to say.....If he can't say the words 'I'm sorry' there are other ways that he can make it up to you. He can take you out to dinner, buy you a flower or just be extra nice to you. Don't make an issue out of his not saying 'I'm sorry'....as long as he is 'sweet' to you as a boyfriend should be.
2006-08-01 12:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by irishME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he cannot admit when he's wrong then you need to proceed carefully. On the other hand, I never really understood the need for some people to have someone say sorry. Does it really change anything? As long as the person knows they are wrong,maybe you should just accept that. But it sounds like your boyfriend may not even THINK that he is wrong.
2006-08-01 13:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by consigliere 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is behaving like that towards you in not saying he is sorry. Do you really see a future with him long term ? Those little things in time can multiply and lead to other things.
Use your head and be prudent. Have a serious talk with him and lay your cards hard on the table with some teeth. If he don't take steps to sort himself out you are not going to take this kind of behavior any more.
The choice is yours to make as i can tell from your eloquence. You still love him and you want to give him another chance, just be prudent as you go a long.
2006-08-01 13:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to him until he says he's sorry! It is hard for guys to say they are sorry. But, in the end if he is a smart guy he will apologize. You can't badger him about it. That never works.
2006-08-01 13:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by teacher1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to grow up and get character. To apologize is to be humble and if a person can't do that I would suggest you find someone that can.
In later years that could cause other relationship problems.
2006-08-01 13:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by frank b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then he's a jerk, you know he's like that so if apologies are what you want find another bf. I personally would prefer one that doesn't do things he needs to apologize for.
2006-08-01 12:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plane and simple he's a man. They have the worst time admiting they are wrong. Or, that they did something wrong.
2006-08-01 13:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by magesticmayhem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we then he probaby aint sorry ,Girl he prob aint sayin sorry cuz the first time he did sumtine u let it roll u HAVE to shape him up or ese hes gonna cheat on u aot and wont even apologize or make it sound ike ur worth it
2006-08-01 12:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by caramelswirlyum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what your question is. it sounds more like a complaint. unfortunately nobody in this room can do anything about it. only he can. so just talk to him and let him know how he makes you feel. don't stress to much about it most guys are like that.
2006-08-01 13:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by Tommy vercetti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because after he says sorry, you still keep bitching at him.
So he figures "what's the use" and decides it's better to say nothing at all.
2006-08-01 12:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋