2006-08-01 12:50:48 · 22 answers · asked by s1mone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yep better to have sex with someone else you have already slept with than a stranger who could have who knows what.
2006-08-01 12:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no it is not OK to have sex with you're ex-boyfriend, look at it from a different way. you 2 broke up for a very good reason. therefore he now is using you, oh you say you are getting something out of it...... really? think about it, what is he trying to silently tell you. i don't have to commit or even what to feel obligated after i get me some free good pussay. if she's going to let me hit tax free y not. then do you know who else he's running up in raw? come on this is you're ex you are not using any protection. what if you get knock up by him? then those same reason you 2 are not 2gether will now be apart of you're life for 18 years or better. when yo break up with a guy you're taking the best thing you know he enjoys, you're pussay. so why give him the pleasure of having you in bed. you suppose to move on with you're personal life. yes you can be friends but that's it. he's playing you and you can't see cause you still like him. that's not healthy for you. pick you're standard up off the ground! he don't want you!!!! he want what tom,dick and Larry want... free pussay. come on you're better than that. next time you do have sex.... think of the real reason you 2 split up. see if it feels good to you then. peace out a concerned stranger 1plum that's me. PS good luck you need it...you sound like youre sprung or a " SUPER STALKER EX-GIRLFRIEND" which one are you? inquiring minds want to know.....
2006-08-01 20:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. . . in reality it is OK for YOU to have sex with anyone you want. However. . . .if you are going to continue to have sex with your ex. . . then. . . at what point is he even your ex? (See Seinfeld Episode where Elaine and Jerry tried this). Also. . .suppose some great guy is interested in you. . . but he finds out you are banging this other guy on a regular basis. . . . how does that make you look? And. .. will he even act on his interest in you? How would you feel if a guy you were interested in was banging his ex? Bottom line is. . . if you are banging someone. . .you are seeing them. . . . in what capacity. . .well. . . that can be labeled in anyway you want. You already know the answer to this question. Good luck in whatever you decide you hornrod!
2006-08-01 19:57:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Run like you've got gasoline drawers on. Because if yall were having sex while you were together and there were feelings tied to it, guess what--them old feelings will return. And then you'll have to go through that emotional breakup within yourself again even though yall are not together.
2006-08-01 20:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by Qui 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It still amazes me that sex is a casual thing like kissing or holding hands. You should only have sex (making love) with your spouse. No exs don't count as your spouse.
2006-08-01 19:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by Fotios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-he's not an ex if you've agreed to be exclusive to one another.
-don't sleep with your ex. be with him or don't be - someone will get (more) hurt.
-sending mixed signals is an immature move on your part.
-allowing him to have you without a commitment is just giving him the milk for free - and he'll keep taking as long as can. i promise that.
2006-08-01 19:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Not Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i said no don;t sleep with an ex because that your ex for an reason and plus that is going to cause more heartache then everything else
2006-08-01 20:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by cowanelmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok. Sometimes people are better friends sperated then when married. You just have to work out how you are going to handle it with your ex.
2006-08-01 19:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone always starts dating then there are bad feelings. They are your ex for a reason. stay friends then in a few months try it again .... cant have your cake and eat it too sorry
2006-08-01 19:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by lcox65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is fine if you have no feeling attached to the situation. If you are doing this because you still have feelings for him and are hoping this will go somewhere then forget it. You will only get yourself hurt. If you think you can do this with ZERO EMOTIONS then go ahead!
2006-08-01 19:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not plus he is somebody who you use to have sex with so yes just be happy and use condoms and be free.
2006-08-01 20:00:01 · answer #11 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋