2006-08-01 12:49:58 · 30 answers · asked by anggie 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
yes, because she is a little young yet. If you really like her, wait until she is sixteen and it won't be quite so bad.
2006-08-01 12:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by samina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. i was 14 and dated a 16 year old boy. things didn't work out because he was going nowhere (dropped out of school, drugs, etc). it was an interesting experiance and not in a bad way, i learned lessons early on so when i was 16 i didn't continue down the same path. i've been dating the same guy since i was 16 for just over 4 years now and we are very happy.
2006-08-01 12:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your intentions and the nature of both people. Generally, no it is not wrong. My 15 year old goes out with a 14 year old that is a bit closer but still. Her Dad however might have a different idea so be ready
2006-08-01 12:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by admiralgill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what the 16 year old boy is looking for in a girlfriend at this stage in life - If its more intimacy and friendship rather than sex then it's fine I think...as long as there is respect for where the 14 year old girl is in her life which legally speaking, is not exploring sexuality.
2006-08-01 12:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong on your part, but it also wouldn't be wrong for her parents to say no. A 14 year old is too young to go on dates alone with boy. Maybe you could ask her to watch a movie with you at your house, if your parents are there, or go on a group outing.
2006-08-01 12:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..very ticklish..cause my brother is dating a girl a bit younger than him..he's 17 and I think she 14, 15....and I'm quite sure she's no longer a virgin....so if it was my daughter I would say no...Although my brother is really into her and doesn't date any other girl but her! But then U can't keep a girl locked up in a house forever..
2006-08-01 12:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by quizzed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tut i think most 14 year old girls are probably around the same mental age as most 16 yr old boys so i cant see any problem with that
2006-08-01 12:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by Chris86 dotdotdot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Not as long as you're not trying to use her because she's young. There's only a 2 year difference, and guys are usually five years younger than their true age emotionally, so really, you're 11 and she's 3 years older than you!
2006-08-01 12:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by Felicity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. I'm 14 and asked out some 12 year old chick, and some chicks in my grade are dating Seniors. Go for it unless her dad is there.
2006-08-01 12:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by Gremple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are responisible, why not? A good friendship is a good star is what I always say...is that not what you meant? Oh, i'm so naive LOL
Honestly, I believe kids should really wait until they more mature if they thinking of marriage or something like that. They should finish high school atleast.
2006-08-01 12:54:41 · answer #10 · answered by Cyber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'ts not wrong...but her father might be a little concerned because your a little older than his daughter. father's are like that...i know my dad is like that.
if you really like her, ask her out. but remember once your, what is it, 19..and she's 17, she's still a minor and your an adult...be careful.
but ask her out if your really like her, if her family is traditional, u might wanna go to her house and ask her father or guardian for permission first...it looks good too.
2006-08-03 05:57:54 · answer #11 · answered by Alexis Samira 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋