I checked my boyfriends messages and he had one saved message of this girl. And on his voicemail he has this love song on it and she asked if that song was for her, and that she'll call him later, and stuff like that and i just don't know what to do. i confronted him about her but he said that he doesn't know who she is. should i believe him even though he's out everynight, gets home at 3-4 in the morning, and when i call him he tells me to call him back and he prefers to be with his friends instead of with me? so please i need your help.
2006-08-01 12:48:34 · 8 answers · asked by Cristina R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is out every night, gets home 3-4 in the morning and then when you call him he tells you to call him back? He prefers to be with his friends instead of with you? He is obviously having a good time without you and my guess is that he has someone else. You need to move forward without him. You've already asked him about things and he denies saying he doesn't know who she is...he's lying and you know that...so he can't be trusted. Have some self respect for yourself and move on and enjoy your life...let the new girl have him...hes not worth it. And you deserve better.
2006-08-01 12:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by irishME 2 · 28⤊ 2⤋
Sorry, hon, you don't have a boyfriend now, just an acquaintance, and not a good one at that.
Dump him, and you won't be losing much, just riding yourself of some bad rubbish.
Find someone, who at least cares to spend time with you, and talk to you on the phone.
2006-08-01 20:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what you know , why try to make it all better, you can't, peeps have to learn when to throw in the towel and just walk away, it's tough , I admit, but it gets easier with practice. that doesn't mean you won't still feel for them for a while but you will get stronger every day and will not let people disrespect you.
2006-08-01 20:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes obviously lying to u hunn. i would try talkin to him in a calm manner about it, face to face. while hes out havin fun, u should be too with a couple of ur friends. dont let him bring u down.
2006-08-01 19:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was saved he has to no her. So considering he lied to you id say break up with him. Sounds like u can do much better
2006-08-01 19:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by krayzeman32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one thing that you can tell him witch is buh-bye and that if he can't talk to you when you call or answer your questions truthfully then you will leave him.
2006-08-01 19:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes cheating & u should be honest with him about ur feelings.if he gets all mad when u confront him,hes lying.dump him.
2006-08-01 19:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by PinkLove6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt show you attention, screw him..you dont deserve that trouble he gives you.
2006-08-01 19:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋