This guy flirts and then as soon as he does this the next day he'll totally ignore me. Sometimes even for like 5 days to a week. I think he thinks I may like him, because I've tried to make personal conversation. He acts really weird and shy. Then he flirted now he won't even look my way. I do see him looking at other girls is it because I'm just not pretty enough and after he flirts he thinks about it?
2006-08-01 12:43:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hon.....he is just a little boy who has NO tact. He doesn't know how to be in a relationship. He flirts with whoever is in his face at that moment.
Another thing you need to learn about guys is that things, people, words spoken, etc just don't stay in their mind like it does a girl.
Men and women are definatly wired differentlyl.
As women we can dwel on something so much that we are obcessed becasue we are keeping track of home many days ago a boy talked to us. The guy mostly likely doesn't remember.
Please don't start a cycle of dwelling on things and thinking that things happen becasue you aren't retty enough or good enough, or smart enough or tall enough. You will be doing this to yourself and blaming a guy, who propable filrts here and there and doesn't put so much thought in to it like a girl does.
Once you understand guys better, you won't spend so much time thinking it is you who has a problem.
2006-08-01 12:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on age and situation, it can be very weird for a guy. Add your age range and you'll probably get a better answers. From your comment it seems like you're pretty young still so it may just be that he is feeling rather awkward. Or he may just be a weirdo. I think we need a little more "background" info to really do any justice to the question.
2006-08-01 12:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by tyghor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a play boy of sorts. My advise is to just be yourself and go on about your business. I'm not saying "snub him". Just don't let him think you're pining for him. If he does come around to talk to you and/or flirt, just be polite, smile, ask him how he's doing and then let him initiate the rest. Hopefully after a few conversations he'll decide whether hes into you or not. Its OK to play a little hard to get. Men like a challenge. :)
2006-08-01 12:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by Haleigh's Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general if a man likes you you know it. They will make it obvious. He probably just likes to flirt. Sounds like he is immature. Don't wast you time on a guy like this. Find a guy who makes it obvious that he likes you. He will treat you the best. Not sure how old you are but in the long run all you want is someone to treat you with love and respect. Nothing else is as important.
2006-08-01 12:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by Nicolleta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a guy and immature I might add. They crave attention from all girls and once they get it they think that if they play hard to get you will "chase" them. He probably is a little shy and doesn't quite know how to handle the attention once he gets it. Just consider the source honey because this won't be the first guy you will come across in your life that will act this way.
My father once told me that with one of these I could get as many of those as I wanted. Believe me it's pretty much true!
2006-08-01 12:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may think, or have been told, that you don't like him. So he will flirt, but that's it. He may also be weird and shy, some people just are that way.
I doubt it's because your not pretty enough....though you could always give him a signal you like him. A nice touch on the elbow or neck, for example.
2006-08-01 12:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like this guy is a real jerk and the next time he tries to flirt with u just tell him "hey i really wish u would go f**k yourself and leave me alone" it's not because your not pretty because i'm sure that u are. i think he flirts to see if you are gonna act on it. don't let him get to you because he's not worth it.
2006-08-01 12:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by christina j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the two of you are fairly young (in your teens?). It seems that he may indeed like you but is afraid to approach you so he backs away when he sees interest. If he's a shy guy and socially somewhat awkward, that's probably what's going on.
2006-08-01 12:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by concernedinwv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, particularly while you're more youthful, and God best is aware of why, we similar to to pester! EVEN animals do it! We had a cat that used to freak out while one more cat stricken her. It was once bizarre, on account that earlier than this, all of them acquired alongside (we had four). When the primary cat noticed her overreact, I wager she acquired a kick out of it and extended her efforts! When the others noticed this, they every, one after the other, started doing the equal, virtually using the deficient cat loopy! They all tormented her to look her freak! So I wager it is not only a human factor.
2016-08-28 14:18:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does it to feed his own ego. He flirts to get your attention, which he does and that makes him feel good about himself. Then he snubs you because then he is the rejector and that makes him feel powerful.
He's got BIG problems and that's the kind of guy that ends up as an abusive boyfriend.
It's time for you to snub him. Permanently! (and don't be surprised if he's suddenly more interested when you snub him...if this happens, it is just confirmation that he is all messed up - don't date him!)
2006-08-01 12:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋