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i am crying my father always order me to help my mother in the house but cleaning all the house by my self when my mother go working she and my father order me to clean the house and if i was bored and didnot do it the became angry with me and some times the shout to me and punish me i am only 15 years old i want to help my mother not to do all her house worke and my mother is not too old she is only 40 years old what should i do with them

2006-08-01 12:42:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

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That's a tough one. Maybe you could try talking to them and tell them how you feel. If anyone is hitting you or hurting you in any way you need to tell a teacher or guidance counselor at school. If you are active in a church you might want to get advice from a pastor or priest. There are two sides to every situation. When you talk to them you have to be mature also. No attitude, swearing, name calling or eye rolling. Tell them that you feel like the situation is unfair and try to work out a compromise

2006-08-01 12:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara M 4 · 3 2

Your mother just wants you to help her out. If both parents work, you need to put in some to. Do they buy you things in return? You only have three more years then you will see how hard it is to work and take care of a home and raise kids all at the same time

2006-08-01 12:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 0 0

It seems like the best person to talk to is your mother. Ask her if you could help her out in other ways such as cooking dinner, washing the dishes, running to the store, instead of always cleaning the house. This way you can still help your mother but not always cleaning the house.

2006-08-01 12:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hi I am 40 years old and work full time to my daughter does 1 chore a day and we split on the weekend her 5 me 5 wanna be my daughter? i have only 1 child

2006-08-01 12:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by Terri L 2 · 0 0

OK, STOP CRYING AND ASK YOURSELF WHAT YOU WOULD BE DOING IF YOU WERE NOT CLEANING. AT 15 I CAN THINK OF A LOT OF THINGS YOU COULD DO, AND SOME OF THEM ARE NOT VERY COOL. WITH YOUR MOM AND DAD BOTH WORKING THERE IS VERY LITTLE TIME FOR THEM TO DO HOUSEWORK WHEN THEY GET HOME. MAY I SUGGEST THAT YOU DO THE CHORES WITH VERY LITTLE OR NO FUSSING AND DO A JOB THAT THEY WILL BE PROUD OF THE I THINK YOU WILL FIND THAT YOUR DAD WILL LIGHTEN UP ON YOU. BESIDES, WORK DOES BUILD CHARACTER.

2006-08-01 12:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by Al s 3 · 0 0

I used to do the same thing. The best thing for you to do is listen to them at least for 3 more years then you can move out on your own and they can come to your house and dirty your dishes and you have to clean after them again. Believe me just listen to them.

2006-08-01 12:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by Blank 3 · 0 0

I would just do it daily before they tell you or tell them you will do it before they ask. Surprise them and make them happy. If things get too bad or abusive then you tell someone at your school. If it's just regular yelling, you can avoid it by doing on your own.

Good Luck and try to be happier...no more tears :o)

2006-08-01 12:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tav I 1 · 0 0

you gotta help your mother with the house work and listen to her then your not gonna be hitted or punshment and she'll love you more more trust me

2006-08-01 12:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

oh my...I was 5 years old when my parents began punishing me....
just do half-a$$ job

2006-08-01 12:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by Rock 4 · 0 0

parents needa stop tellin us kids what to do, we arent there slaves, we are kids

2006-08-01 12:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by N0LaNbPiMpIn985 F.O.B. 3 · 0 0

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