If you were dating sum1 and u were really in love with someone and they broke up with you and they went back to an ex,and they told you they were soulmates and u were basically a rebound thing,but then broke up 2 weeks later.....But now they have a new bf/gf,would u be upset like what was wrong with me or be like f*ck it screw the b*itch...
2006-08-01 12:40:09 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be like oh well thats their loss not mine apparently this person you were dating isnt sure about themselves and wasnt into you to begin with. so i'd basically just say hope they're happy and move on.
2006-08-01 12:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissyt91 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I not sure that I would go as far as saying all of those words, but I would just move on. If she gets her Kicks out of moving from one man to the next. Then maybe you are better without her. Just imagine if she moved from you that fast onto the next guy, then she really isn't the woman that you want to take home to Mom. There is nothing wrong with you, just make sure that your expectation are about the woman, not anything materialistic. That equal to disaster.
2006-08-01 12:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just have to understand that the girl wasn't really ready for a relationship, and I would not take it personally, b/c it has very little to do with u, ahe's just confused and has no idea what she wants. While this sucks for you b/c u got hurt and have had to wade throughall her emotional crap, just chalk it up to experience in the love dept. now u will know not to get involved with girls on the rebound next time.
2006-08-01 12:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by lizardlover150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait, the way she operates it sounds like she will be back with you again every other month. She sounds pretty flakey to me, and girls are flakey enough as it is without showing outward symptoms like this.
She doesn't care about your feelings at all, or the feelings of the other men she manipulated and trashed. Looks like she and her future husband will be featured in a domestic violence segment of C.O.P.S.
2006-08-01 12:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was my ex I wouldn't care what they did, thats what ex means. You can be as upset as you want but that doesn't change anything, perhaps you should reserve 'really being in love' with someone for somebody that you are actually with for a while, actually understand and honestly know. That should solve your problem.
2006-08-01 12:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you, you are not a mind reader,how were you surposed to know that you would end up a rebound fling.There is no nice way when breaking up with someone. you have to tell your self that you are a great person, and that it's his loss, that he broke up with you.
2006-08-01 12:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that has never happened to me before, but I guess if it did then I would be really upset. I would get another bf/gf to maybe make them jealous or something.
2006-08-01 12:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be upset I am sure many girls think that there is nothing wrong with you. Just say f*ck her and realize that she left a really caring guy and that it is her loss.
2006-08-01 12:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once I'm out of a relationship I don't pay a bit of attention to what goes on with the ex and neither should you it will only drive you crazy sooner
2006-08-01 12:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on and learn from the situation. You have to learn to let go and not allow it to affect happiness in the future. And oh yeah, screw that b*tch.
2006-08-01 12:45:05 · answer #10 · answered by Felicity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋