I am no longer friends with a girl in my "circle of friends". Do I still have to invite to group outtings?

Question

we used ot be good friends and i introduced her to my circle of friends and now she hangs out with them even though we grown a part to the point when i don't want to hang out with her. i'm not mean to her. do i still have to invite her to group outings? or do i just be nice and invite her?

oh yeah i've tried to reconcile with her and stay connected for the past year. . . so its not like i'm being a snob. thanks though i loved that answer

No i don't hate her at all.

Answer 1

I would ask someone else inside your Circle for advice. If you didn't invite her, you and her could soon find yourselves involved in a "group" gripe. Then things would turn temporarily nasty and one of you would lose. Explain to a trusted friend what you've told us and then weigh her advice. Until then, continue to invite your ex-friend along on Group outings and put up with her. You don't have to be mean and I applaud you for considering her feelings.

Answer 2

I think you should invite your current friends out with you, and tell them if they wish for her to join then they can invite her as well. Just because she is there in a group does not mean you have to give her your attention. I'm sure you don't *hate* her, right? You and your friends can circulate, she will still be included with the others, just not with you.

Answer 3

Yes. She hasn't done anything wrong, you just aren't as close as you were.

Since she's part of the group of friends, it would be rude to exclude her (and would also be forcing the rest of the group to chose between you -- never a good idea).

You don't have to especially hang out with her, but you should treat her as an equal member of the group, since that's what she is.

Answer 4

just be nice... life's too short to hurt and ignore people "just because". if u had real reason to hate or dislike her, i would understand why u would think about it..but even then, it may be hard, but be the bigger person. some day u will look back and be glad that u were able to be nice, cuz u never want to regret things u've done in the past. i've learned that now; that no matter what i've done, i don't want to regret it, therefore i try my hardest to treat others w/ respect and politeness and honesty.... if they don't like me, ok , that's their decision. but i never purposely tried to cause trouble for other people, so i have no guilty conscience.

Answer 5

ok they do no longer sound like your actual acquaintances yet, Do have an particularly reliable plan next time they go someplace and do not invite then you brag about.Say Oooo it ought to of been tremendous I wouldnt comprehend I wasnt invited like then elevate the difficulty. reliable success playstation Make better positive acquaintances

Answer 6

Yes snob

Answer 7

Your not obligated to invite her to your group outings, however you don't hate her right? So you should probably still invite her out to group outings.

Answer 8

She's still friends apparently with your other friends... unless you want to alienate yourself from them as well go ahead and invite her. If she refuses to attend then the problem is hers, not yours.
And if she shows up, be polite. That's what growing up is all about.

Answer 9

if the group has accepted her as part of it, then yes you have to invite her and keep your mouth shut. however you could pole the members of the group and see how they actually feel about her.

Answer 10

if your no longer friends, you don't invite them anywhere. if you meet up at a party or outting, you say a polite hello and go about your business.