please help im 16 & i realy like this girl but im a little bit shy and all i know about her is her name and we're not at the same school and she also seems to be shy but from her looks (& mine of course) i think that we realy have something
2006-08-01 12:04:36 · 9 answers · asked by hero 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her out, cant hurt.
2006-08-01 12:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're too shy, get one of your friends to talk to her and get her e-mail address. If you see her, casually say Hi so that she knows you exist. No offense but unless you've talked before she probably doesn't know who you are. Ask her how her day was or what she thinks of something going on in your town. Good luck. Try to be confident and not let your shyness get to you. If she's worth it, then you shouldn't be shy around her anyways.
2006-08-01 12:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax. when you see her, walk over and casually bumb into her but not hard. say your sorry, talk about how busy your schedule has been and tell her how beautiful her eyes are. give her a few compliments, but don't over do it. Say "i actually have some free time now, would you like to get some coffee" or something like that and don't be too forward. enjoy yourself and just be you.
2006-08-01 12:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by cheerinchik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya def shouldnt just go by looks. thats why you should try to get to know her. i find it helps to talk to girls on line. its easier to say what ya mean i spose. you may want to invite her to hang out with you and a couple friends at first. but friends that are likely not to glom onto you or her. friends that will just hang out & talk to eachother. just get to know her. but you have to let her know in some way that its not just totally friendly. i made that mistake once, and i ended up being her best friend for nearly a year now, who is completely in love w/ her, but has never told her because i waited for the right time, and she decided she was straight. but i started out like you, and went for it, but ****** up. you dont wanna end up like me.
hope i helped, and good luck!
2006-08-01 12:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some way to spark up conversation,when the timing's right,tell her you like her.
2006-08-01 12:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put a flower and note to go out orsomething on her locker make it a sweet not but not too much...be confident in the note but not cocky..and if its summer pu tit on her car lol
2006-08-01 12:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by Bianca G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot get to her in here... you have to find out which school and figure out something, okay?
2006-08-01 12:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by Hibernating Ladybird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go over to her and ask her out. If you don't ask her out, you will always have the "what if" hanging over you.
2006-08-01 12:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is ask all they can do is say no
2006-08-01 12:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋