My dog is afraid of everything, how can I bring her fear down?

Question

She is a chihuahua, I don't know how old. We're pretty sure she's just chi but a couple people have told me she looks like she could have daschund (sp?) in her. Anyways she really loves playing with me, my cousin, or my 9 year old brother but everyone else seems to scare her. She's afraid of all pet toys, any sudden noises whatsoever, if anything close to her moves or makes a sound while she's eating/drinking she runs away, you get the picture. She's afraid of cats, but she loves other dogs but please don't tell me to get another dog or something, we can't afford it.

If ya want, here's a pic of her. I'm holding her but kinda looking at something else, and my little bro (the 9 year old) was trying to get in the pic: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v47/bonus_points/babyface.jpg

Answer 1

Very cute dog you have there! She looks like my chi/dachsund mix puppies cole and leo. http://i33.photobucket.com/albums/d96/princessfionachanel/NewDogs056.jpg
Did you rescue her from a shelter or find her..? If so... she was probably abused or mistreated in the past. That could be the root of her problems. I also provided somemore information below. It seems like you are truly worried about her, so if this info, or any other info doesn't help, I would recommend taking her to the vet and getting their opinion.

Causes of Fearful Behavior

Determining why your dog is fearful is helpful but not always essential to treating the fearful behavior, although the reason for his fear will dictate the relative success of the treatment. A dog who is genetically predisposed to general fearfulness, or a dog who was improperly socialized during a critical stage in his development, will probably not respond as well to treatment as a dog who has developed a specific fear in response to a specific experience. It's essential, however, to first rule out any medical causes for your dog's fearful behavior. Your first step should be to take your dog to your veterinarian for a thorough medical evaluation.

What You Can Do

Most fears won't go away by themselves, and, if left untreated, may get worse. Some fears, when treated, will decrease in intensity or frequency but may not disappear entirely. After you've ruled out medical causes, your first step in dealing with your dog's fearful behavior is to identify what triggers his fear. Is he afraid of startling noises? Is he afraid of being left alone? Most fears can be treated using desensitization and counter-conditioning techniques, which require a lot of time and patience. You may need help from a professional animal-behavior specialist to help you with these techniques.

How to Use the Desensitization Technique

Begin by exposing your dog to a very low level or small amount of whatever it is that's causing his fear. For example, if he is afraid of bicycles, start with a bicycle placed at a distance of 100 feet from your dog.
Reward him for calm, non-fearful behavior in the presence of the bicycle. Gradually move the bicycle closer to him. As long as your dog remains relaxed, reward him with treats and praise. If at any point he becomes anxious, move the bicycle further away and proceed at a slower pace.
When your dog can remain relaxed in the presence of a stationary bicycle, move the bicycle 100 feet away again, but have someone ride it slowly by him. Again, gradually increase the proximity of the slowly moving bicycle, rewarding your dog for remaining calm and relaxed. Repeat this procedure as many times as necessary, gradually increasing the speed of the moving bicycle.
This process may take several days, weeks, or even months. You must proceed at a slow enough pace that your dog never becomes fearful during the desensitization process. If you move too quickly you won't be successful.
How to Use the Counter Conditioning Technique
Counter conditioning works best when used in conjunction with desensitization and involves pairing the fear stimulus (for example, a moving bicycle) with an activity or behavior incompatible with the fear behavior (for example, the dog remaining in the "sit" position).

Using the desensitization technique example described previously, while your dog is exposed to the bicycle, ask him to perform some obedience exercises, such as "sit" and "down." Reward him for obeying and continue to have him obey commands as the bicycle is moved closer to him.
If your dog doesn't know any commands, teach him a few using treats and praise. Don't ever use punishment, collar corrections, or scolding to teach him the commands, as the point of counter conditioning is for him to associate pleasant things with the stimulus that now frightens him.
Realistic Expectations

Some of the things that frighten dogs can be difficult to reproduce and/or control. For example, if your dog is afraid of thunderstorms, he may be responding to other things that occur during the storm, such as smells, barometric pressure changes and/or changes in natural light. During the desensitization process, it is impossible for you to reproduce all of these factors. Another example would be if your dog is afraid of men. You may work at desensitizing him, but if a man lives in your household and your dog is constantly exposed to him, this can disrupt the gradual process of desensitization. You need to be patient with your dog and work hard not to become frustrated during the desensitization process.

When to Get Help

Because desensitization and counter conditioning can be difficult techniques to master, and because behavior problems may increase if these techniques are done incorrectly, you may want to get professional, in-home help from an animal-behavior specialist. It's important to keep in mind that a fearful dog who feels trapped or is pushed too far may become aggressive. Some dogs will respond aggressively to whatever it is that frightens them. If your dog displays any aggressive behavior, such as growling, snarling, snapping, or baring his teeth, stop all behavior modification procedures and seek professional help from an animal-behavior specialist as soon as possible.

Consult with Your Veterinarian

Medication may be available which can help reduce your dog's anxiety levels for short time periods. Your veterinarian is the only person who is qualified and licensed to prescribe medication for your dog. Don't attempt to give your dog any over-the-counter or prescription medication without consulting with your veterinarian. Animals don't respond to drugs the same way people do, and a medication that may be safe for humans could be fatal to your dog. Drug therapy alone won't reduce fears and phobias permanently, but in extreme cases, behavior modification and medication used together may be the best approach.

What Not to Do

Do not punish your dog for being afraid. Punishment will only make him more fearful.
Do not try to force your dog to experience the object or situation that is causing him to be afraid. For example, if he is afraid of bicycles and you force him to stand in place while bicycles whiz by, he'll probably become more fearful of bicycles rather than less fearful.
Never punish your dog after the fact for destruction or house soiling caused by anxiety or fear. Animals don't understand punishment after the fact, even if it's only seconds later. This kind of destruction or house soiling is the result of panic, not misbehavior. Punishment will do more harm than good.

Answer 2

You need to get your dog out and about in different situations. do not baby her let her explore on her own. If she shows that she is afraid of something just ignore this behavior. when she explores on her own the praise this behavior. Take her to the park to the ball field when a game is going on and best of all take her to obedience classes where she will be around other dogs and strangers...DO NOT BABY HER this is the worse thing you can do

Answer 3

Here is a great lesson and advice on dealing with the timid dog.

Motivating a Timid Dog http://www.veterinarypartner.com/Content.plx?P=A&A=997&S=1

Your little dog is ADORABLE!!!

Answer 4

Listen to everything confusedbuth said. An read lots of books.

Answer 5

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