We just broke up and I'm sooooo depressed, either cheer me up or tell me how to get cheered up please.
2006-08-01 11:22:00 · 11 answers · asked by milkshake74 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is so sad when this happens, but you are probably better off than you know. I am a firm believer that "things happen for a reason". Your "Mister Right" is out there....just give him time to find you. In the meantime, invite your friends over for a slumber party. Go swimming with the gals. Plan a week-end get-a-way with the girls. Keep yourself busy. If you are a student, plan study time with your friends. Focus on yourself for awhile...new hairstyle...different color nail polish...change your perfume....etc.
2006-08-01 11:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes time, but time in itself doesn't fix anything, its what you do with the time that counts. if you spend that time doing nothing but thinking about what was yesterday that is how you will spend your tomorrows. you have to grieve, but give yourself a limit, after that push yourself forward, no matter how much you don't want to, keep busy doing things that make you happy, at first it will serve no real purpose except distracting your brain, but eventually you will find joy in them again.
take care of yourself physically, make great meals just for you, don't start eating junk just because its just you eating it, read some great books, listen to great music, DANCE (nobody can be sad when they dance) even if its home by yourself, shop, spend time with friends and family, volunteer in your community with people or dogs if you prefer. do the things you gave up for your relationship. soon you will find yourself understanding what went wrong and ready to try again. good luck, be patient with yourself, and remember it will get better!
2006-08-01 11:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of the house. Go hang out with your friends. Talk to you family. Realize that he is probably gay and tell all your friends. Imagine him beign ran over with a wheel barrel full of bull s$%#. Then the thing tips over and he is with his own ideals=BULLS$#%. Hope that helps. It does get better with time. My fiance and I broke up a couple months ago and I am much better now so the pain will go away soon, I promise.
2006-08-01 11:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by maisyday07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you just broke up with someone who you really care about then try to talk to him and see if you two can still be friends. but if you really didnt like him then girl go out and if you see him then just say hi!
2006-08-01 11:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by Me-mi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go shopping ro call up ur friends and spend a night at their place. it always cheered me up to have friends who understand.
2006-08-01 11:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by AzN_aNgL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this might sound wierd but listen to sad songs...you will eventually get bored of being depressed and move on with your life
2006-08-01 11:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by limey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about something else,watch tv or you can watch a funny movie.
2006-08-01 11:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by Cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to your friends house and get your buddys ben and jerry and maybe if you watch sum blue collar comedy tours or whose line is it anyway on tv or you could humiliATE HIM sumway
2006-08-01 11:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by Alice-In Wonderland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and get your hair done nails done go shopping anything to keep your mind off of him
2006-08-01 11:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just occupy your time honey
2006-08-01 11:25:29 · answer #10 · answered by Strawberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋