We broke up last week and I think about him now and again. It lasted a couple months so I'm not too upset but we were friends before all this. Should I even try to call him?
2006-08-01 11:03:27 · 17 answers · asked by love154100 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on why and how you broke up . If he did you wrong in some way then you stay away from him or her. If you parted on good terms then wait a while longer and then call to say hello. By waiting you let them make the first move .
2006-08-01 11:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by fuzzywuzzysgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be concerned about your ex as long as you want. If you were friends before he will get over hurt give him time either call send a letter explaining that sorry it didn't work out but your friendship is important, an when hes ready if he wants you will still be friends. Remimd him of what friendship waslike before you became a couple.
2006-08-01 18:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is how I figure things out. I was with a guy for 3 years and we where serious then he cheated on me (JERK) and it took me about 2 1/2 years to get over him 100%. So I kind of add up the time we where 2gether and when we break up I give my self about that much time to get over him.
You probably don't want to call him. Make him come back to you - make him think you are over him and that you don't need him.
Good luck!
2006-08-01 18:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that yes, eventually you could be friends again. dont call him yet! try to be friends again in a couple weeks, maybe a month or two. whateer you do don't force the friendship too soon or you will lose all chance to be friends again. not to mention that you might not get over him. keep you distance until you are sure you can both handle it.
2006-08-01 18:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by lalie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was true love then it is better to leave well alone. I only say that because sometimes love just ain't enough and it hurts too much to stay together. I am talking about a "normal" person being with a dysfunctional person. e.g. an active alcoholic that wion't seek help and the healthy partner not being able to stay and watch their loved one slowly killing theirself and destroying the relationship.Is this too much information?
2006-08-01 18:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by sinned 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be thinking about him for a long time and you just have to ve prepared to know that.
They say it takes 1/2 of the time you spent with a person to get over them.
Find a healthy alternative to substitute your desire to call him. When you get the urge to call him, phone a friend.
2006-08-01 18:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No; don't call him. It does not matter how long you are concerned about your ex once he does not know how you feel it is ALL good! So contacting him is out of the question because then he will know you concerned.
2006-08-01 18:09:03 · answer #7 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still want to be friends and can put behind you what didn't work out, then sure! Your going to think about him from time to time, its not a bad thing. Its how you Live and Learn!
2006-08-01 18:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea u should call him. If u was friends before y not stay friends afterwards. right? nuttin wrong with dat .
2006-08-01 18:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call. Its been over a week and you weren't together that long. just let it go.
2006-08-01 18:08:52 · answer #10 · answered by C-BIZZLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋