okay, i like this guy but he only wants sex. I liked him so much, i dumbly believed it could work, but every time he calls me, it's always to talk about only one subject- sex. In a moment of madness i told him i wanted to sleep with him too. But, i've realised he probably won't go out with me and is only using me :(. Now, can you tell me a good way to make him know that i don't want sex if he's not committed?
2006-08-01 10:51:36 · 4 answers · asked by babychi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Been there!
Tell him that you can't have a purely physical relationship with him because you have feelings for him, and you know you will just end up getting hurt, so if that's all he's interested in. You can't/won't do it.
He may try the whole "but its fun for now" and you just tell him that it is, but it's not worth the hurt you will get, and if he trys saying that he MAY develop feelings for you, tell him that in that case you two should lay off the physical for a while and see if anything is there.
Tell him no physical until you are SURE there is something emotional.
Good luck.
2006-08-01 10:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by attila 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmi think he dont love u he only wants sex from u so i think u should leave him . if u he really loves u he ll come back
2006-08-01 18:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by LOST 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him be.if you say yes all you are going to be is his convent friend. its not worth it
2006-08-01 17:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by applejack80@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not in it for love, he's outta there.
2006-08-01 17:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by boo_6917 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋