I was attending chior the other day, when my priest called me in to his office in the back of the church. Once i enterd the room he told me to strip, i told him i didnt want to and tryed to leave but he hit me and forced him self in side my person. He then told me if i went to the police that he would have my father arrested for crimes he has admited to in confesion. please help, i really need guidence.
2006-08-01 10:48:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
If your being honest, call the police.
If your joking, shame on you.
2006-08-01 10:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by firefrons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call police..dont mind the threat..he's in greater danger than ur father (i think)..
first, he is using threat bcoz he knows that he's done something the law, and god, would never forgive (without repentance)
next, there is this thing as this certain privacy thing between priest and parishioners..it wont be admissible to court (hopefully..)
and also, he is threatening you because what he is done is not only wrong but scandalous to him..
YOU SHOULD NOT BE SCARED OF HIM.. your the victim here.. just imagine, if he gets away with this, he would definitely do this to other innocent girls..
*but plan first..make sure that everything is settled before going to the police..try going to women support group near ur area..it is more powerful if people are behind you.. and also, try to do ur own background check..u might fish other illegal activities that he is going to..and you have to counter his connections
goodluck!
2006-08-01 18:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by mr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly, if this is really true, you would'nt be telling everyone on the internet. secondly, you should'nt be telling everyone on the internet. i don't know about those jokers who believed you, but if, in some strange weird *** exotic way this is true, you should be telling your teacher(a.e. someone that you trust) your parents, the chief of police, all of the above would work. and also,
call up your local weapons dealer and buy a blow gun and some tranquilizer darts. then go to chior practice, and when he calls you in, tell him you've got AIDs. then when he says "just come here", tell him "**** off" and shoot em' with the tranquilizer dart.
then stow his rapist body in a dumpster.
2006-08-01 18:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not an expert but I believe you should tell a guidance counselor at school or tell a parent of a close friend. Be sure to tell them all details of the threats and request that you want protection if you feel that your life is in danger.
2006-08-01 19:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, I know what you feel...
All I can say is, don't let it happen to you again... don't get near that sick-o again...
Talk to your father... why should you pay for the mistakes he has made? He will then decide what to do, but at least you will have taken it off your shoulders...
I know it is not easy, I know it is hard because you may fear your parent's reaction. They will understand that it was not your fault. If you can't trust them, who? I know that it wrotts you inside, but take it from me, don't let this kill you little by little, talk to somebody, go to another priest, talk to your parents, and if you are like me, you will probably write them a note instead of telling them face to face because it is so hard... I have not yet spoken to my husband for what my father-in-law did to me. If you need anyone to talk to, feel free to contact me... Maybe I can't give you the best advice ( I Know because I can't follow my own advice), but I can offer you a good pair of ears and all My prayers... Best of luck to you and know that it was never your fault...
2006-08-01 18:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by Magy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, know that you have done nothing wrong - only your priest. Secondly, until you find a solution, do not go back to choir practice. Most importantly, talk to an adult you trust. Perhaps one of your teachers. Good luck.
2006-08-01 17:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by LarryB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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biaztch. YOU KNOW WHAT?? you know what you should do? you have to go to a parent without him knowing. then go to the police. i know your worried about your fatgher but a girl liek you shall not go through this torture. just go to the police alrite? the next thing you know, he might start f****** you. go to police. i really know your afraid that yur dad is going qaway for eer. are the crimes he commited major?
well tell police
2006-08-01 17:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by raghkha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first go to your father, and tell him everything, if he loves and cares about you he will put you first and take you to the police station to report this person if he wont help you than you go and report himto the police they will make sure you get help and by reporting him you will also make sure this doesnt happen to anyone else
2006-08-01 19:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda know what ur going through and i'm really sorry to tell u this but u SERIOUSLY need to go to the police and feel free to email me if u want,I'll pray 4 ya!
2006-08-01 18:06:02 · answer #9 · answered by Rats Rule! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u know of an adult frend of ur parents
or even just talk to ur parents? maybe they know a
lawyer they coud talk to--if the priest
tell the police somethin he heard in confession
it may not be admissibl in court
2006-08-01 18:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by heartofglass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋