My boyfriend lives abroad and came to visit on vaccation, he booked a hotel room, took me out for dinner, spoiled me with gifts, then expected me to come back to the hotel room. I had sex with him but he tried not using a condom, i ordered him to put one on but before he came he took it off and said hed always wanted to come inside a girl. I told him i was worried and he shrugged it off. Y would he do that? Hes alot older than me, do men normally do that? This is my first sexual relationship.
2006-08-01 10:38:37 · 10 answers · asked by janeysmithster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he's totaly selfish! After you made him wear one, go to your GP and get it all checked out also get the morning after pill. break off the relationship he obvously does not respect you at all.
2006-08-01 10:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by chickL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cant say why he in particular would do that. I mean, would i prefer sex without a condom for pleasure? absolutely, its like night and day, but unless it was someone i was serious with or could accept the responsibility of having a kid with, i wouldnt. Maybe he's just immature or too stupid to realize the risks.
But yeah, most men would probably not put one on if you didnt ask or tell them too... it does feel alot better without one. But you shouldnt care, make them use them anyways...
2006-08-01 10:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is selfish beyond belief, and it sounds like he is taking advantage of your inexperience. It sounds terrible, but he is probably doing the same thing with other girls (since you live in different countries, there is no telling what he gets up to every night). You need to a) dump him IMMEDIATELY, and b) go to the doctor IMMEDIATELY and get an STD test. You deserve better. Someone who loves you will respect you and your body (he clearly does not). Remember, your health is the most important thing.
2006-08-01 10:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants a baby, he wants to trick you into marriage, either that or hes got something nasty and wants to give it to you. or he doesnt know how to use a condom? Anyway as a lot olde rthan you - hes come inside a lot of women already?? Wonder how many kids he's got????? or may be he really does want to be with you and sees this as the only sire fire way of getting you -spoil you, get you pregnant etc - maybe he see's time as running out?????? Id ask him what he's really up to, he definitely wants to trap you though - I think
2006-08-04 20:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by Mercy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were foolish to let him near you without a condom, its your body. And he could be transmitting discease and making you pregnant. Is this relationship going somewhere , will he still want you if you get pregnant?
2006-08-01 10:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jeanette 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy is totally unbelievable!! Stand up for your right to be healthy and free to decide when you'll have a child and what to do with your body.
2006-08-01 10:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by maggie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds inconsiderate and selfish. Would he be after a visa if you had his child??
Either way get yourself checked out if he did it to you then how many was there before you? no matter what he says.
I would question my feelings for him if I was you because he doesn't show much regard for yours.
2006-08-01 10:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by Missmack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to get pregnant or a STD insist he where a condom. Follow your own instincts on this.
2006-08-01 10:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, all men are not like that. He's just being incredibly selfish and you should tell him to f... off. It's your body, don't put up with it.
2006-08-01 10:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he like to mary u
2006-08-03 20:16:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋