I feel like alls i can depend on is me.My mom alls she wants to do is play with the baby.I'm like ''mom can you come here for a sec''Because of ants and she's like''NO.I'M PLAYING WITH THE BABY.''My dad,he got chips and i took two and didnt make a mess and my brother took one and made a mess with crumbs,and i got yeled at most because he said i made a bigger mess.He said i got crumbs all over the place.He knew justin did more.What should i do.I feel like i dont have a family.Like they dont want me anymore because they have the baby and my 9 yr old brother.They spoil them,and not me.I feel like who ever i can depend on is me ,my pets and my friends.I feel like i should just run away.Should i?
2006-08-01 10:38:03 · 19 answers · asked by Crazy girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I feel lost,own my own,and far from home!
2006-08-01 10:39:05 · update #1
She also hates my best friend,But she lets her come over.She said that she is a trouble maker just the way she looks and talks.She hates her,but yet,she talks to her like i'm not there.When she is over.
2006-08-01 10:41:28 · update #2
I feel like,i can follow my heart,but there is a path,and it just is a turning signal and i dont know where to turn.
2006-08-01 10:45:35 · update #3
Ok,basically,I'm lost
2006-08-01 10:47:16 · update #4
You dont have to read this but,Here are some other things.
1.My hamster is sick and paralized and my mom wont let me take him to the vet.Even i told her i woulsd play.
2.My brother is always in my business,and i get yelled at for yelling at him.
3.Something is wong with me fish and my mom is too''buisey''to notice anything.
4.she doesnt even know how i feel because when ever i try to talk to her,she just laughs at me.Even when i'm seriouse.I'm 12 and she laughed at me because she was making fun of me for still playing with toys,and i said ''because i'm different''And she cracked up.
5.My mom doesnt know how i feel because i cant talk to her.She doesnt take my seriously.
6.When i'm mad at her,she acts like the child.Like i was mad at her and i told her my knee hurts bacuae i fell on it,and she said''so''
7.It dont get much better with my dad sometimes.
2006-08-01 10:52:41 · update #5
It's pretty normal. Don't worry, this is a temporary situation. There's a new baby in the house and it's a novelty now. Give it some time and things will be back to normal.
Try helping your mom with the baby and all 3 of you can spend quality time together.
You are the older child and your parents will be so proud of your willingness to pitch in that before you know it, they'll be spoiling you, too.
2006-08-01 10:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 15⤊ 3⤋
Do not run away because then you really will be alone in a mean world. The best thing to do is talk about it. Tell your parents you need to talk to them about something that has been deeply bothering you. If they attempt to listen just be happy. Remember, once you grow up you really are alone in this world. The sooner you can learn to depend on just yourself, the easier it will be in the long run. Don't be too sad because there is always someone who has it 10 times worse than you.
2006-08-01 10:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by limeallure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey your Mom still loves you but a new baby needs a little more attention right now. Relax Give Mom a hand. So what if you got yelled at for making a mess you'll probably make a bigger one sooner or later and not get blamed.
2006-08-01 10:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by Binky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you, Kinda besides the point, but i think after your parents get your bro and sis to bed tonight you should sit down with them so you have there full attention and bring this to the table. Let them know how you are feeling and ask why this is happening. Let them know you are feeling left out and need some attention too. This must be serious for you to feel you have to run away. Please don't run away, it will only make things worse.
2006-08-01 10:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by alleeshia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, no you should not run away from home. I know you're frustrated - life is frustrating sometimes. What you should be doing is focusing on your education (there are quite a number of typos in that question you posted so I'm guessing you're not studying very hard) and a futrue career path. Busy yourself with that (and a bit of time to play) and you'll be on your way to greater happiness!
2006-08-01 10:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One family is always a family.true,it does hurt being treated unfairly by parent but you should take it as part of growing up & life that you need to face up with & being the eldest in the family,it is common to get scolded even if you are not wrong.times will heal all pains & have a open mind to accept the fact of life.don't run away from reality & face up.
2006-08-01 10:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by Goosters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not run away. Try to tell your mom that you really need to talk to her, seriously, and tell her how you feel. If she won't listen, talk to a female family member, or maybe a teacher. Never run away. When you run away, you put yourself in huge danger. There are people out there who will hurt you and take advantage of you. Be careful! Talk to someone you can trust.
2006-08-01 10:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by L S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey i am sure that its probably just a phase cause the baby is new and everyone is just adjusting! If you really fell bad talk to your mums best friend or aunt that is really close and mayby could do something.!
Good luck:)
2006-08-01 10:43:05 · answer #8 · answered by drama princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't run away. Stay home and quit thinking so much about your needs and stop keeping score with who loves whom the most. You question and complaints make it clear that you are very immature and selfish.
2006-08-01 10:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by Track Walker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a course in English might be of some benefit to you. Perhaps with a remedial focus on grammar and punctuation.
2006-08-01 10:41:56 · answer #10 · answered by roadrunner426440 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋