Don't think of me has a male hater. Because I am not. I'm actually interested in why some men or odd in the bedroom. But, my question is do you women ever have the problem of your man being very hot and bothered. Then they tend to hurry and try to get to the part they want and they tend to forget that they either have to use a lot of lube or they have to in some way get you hot and bothered and somewhat lubricated before they can begin. Because if they don't it tends not to work so well. IF guys would like to answer why they do this. Please let me know.
2006-08-01 10:12:39 · 10 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In most cases, like what you are describing, the male partner is immature and selfish. They can be quite the opposite when it comes to the relationship minus the sex, but that is actually the way an awful lot of men are. A man who has respect and a loving affliction for his mate will make sure that what he does pleases his mate first then himself...just too bad most guys are still troglodytes until they are about 50..then they realize how much better it all is to please your woman.....and so rewarding too.....instead of just being in the mode where it is "All about themselves"......mature communication between partners is great...put the Dude straight....If he was driving your car all the time and was spinning the wheels and not putting oil in the right places to make it work better I am sure you would bring it to his attention real fast.....go for it girl
2006-08-01 10:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes your parnter is either selfish or inexperienced. you need to take charge enough to let him know what you need. neither men or women are mind readers. why don't you keep a bottle of lube at bedside and grab as needed? but more importantly, tell him a few things you'd like him to do to you to get YOU all hot and bothered. just the telling might do quite a bit! lol
it takes 2 to have great sex!
2006-08-01 17:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by hiddenhotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like who's bothered and hot, and wants to eat lube??What??
2006-08-01 17:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by Silverstang 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are just selfish lovers, what can i say? not all of us are like that, but many are. its like asking why guys like to watch sports, its just in the DNA, generally speaking.
2006-08-01 17:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by e fitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really can't answer this question, if it were up to me, my first thought would be her pleasure and then we can work on me, but she has to be satisfied first.
2006-08-01 17:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by Paktown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems the guys you have sex with are self centered and don't know what they're doing.
2006-08-01 17:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by Mordent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because where nervious about what the girl would think
2006-08-01 17:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by the dragon king 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you do some prep work, then? Eh? Eh?
2006-08-01 17:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jake 'N' Shakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does take time
2006-08-01 17:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by cirdellin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see if you don't have sex, you wont have this problem.
2006-08-01 17:16:44 · answer #10 · answered by Contesta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋