im a nice guy, and in my life ive always been screwed over, epseacily when it comes to girls. im handsome im nice and i treat women with respect but when it comes to relationships they always ignore me and say we're "just really good freinds" and then they go out with either a shallow dipsh*t or some creepy pervert.......why is this .... why??
2006-08-01 10:07:16 · 13 answers · asked by Hellion 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh, and im not just a nice guy, im actually a bada$$. But since i actually treat women the way they deserve i qualify for being a nice guy
2006-08-01 10:15:59 · update #1
OK, lets try to answer this. see, girls like man that are confident in themselves, and that do not turn red if a girl expresses affection, girls like guys that can be tough, because they know that those kind of guys will be able to protect them if needed. don't blame yourself if you don't understand this, a lot of this comes from back from the stone age , when women needed men that will be able to protect them, hunt for food, and support the family. so throughout the ages, women learned how to spot those guys, and "the bad" guys are much like that.
I'm not saying that "good" guys are out of fashion, no, that's not that, but the good guys usually don't posses such characteristics, and instead are insecure and shy (nothing personal, I'm just trying to explain). and that's what turns women off - insecurity and uncertainty. girls like "good" guys very much (personal experience), as long as they still act confident and act like a "real man."
what you should do is go to a bookstore, to the section with books about relationship (don't worry, ppl there don't bite) and get yourself a piece of literature, read it, then get another one if you liked it. it will sure help you , and if you manage to retain your "niceness" and obtain the qualities of a "bad" guy, the road is wide open. ...just remember to use protection.
2006-08-01 10:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by Slav 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Hellion,
Yes. Women go for guys who have a lot of self confidence, and yes, even an A hole. You are beginning to learn what you need to do to get women. If you are getting tired of being a girl's gay boy friend, it's time that you started trying something different. Being a nice guys doesn't seem to work does it?
There is a radio show called the Tom Leykis Show that is on from 3:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. pacific time. They might broadcast it on the radio where you live. You should really check out this radio program to learn what you need to know to get more girls for less effort. Check out his web site here.
http://www.blowmeuptom.com/
Try to learn the rules of Leykis-101.
http://www.blowmeuptom.com/leykis-or-not/comments.php?DiscussionID=17&page=1#Item_0
You may not agree with what is being taught there, but as long as you give it a try and see, first hand whether it works, you can't go wrong. Give it a try; and happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-08-01 17:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, that's what they do.
I one night developed a theory on this but it was late and I didn't write it down so I've forgotten it.
But I do remember my solution.
The girls will end up marrying and having children with the dipshits and perverts and then in a few years they'll leave their abusive, stupid, idiotic husbands and come back to us nice guys who loved them all along.
Just hope their sons turn out more like us than thier fathers.
2006-08-02 09:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by Z, unnecessary letter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're to nice! Take a risk and put your feelings out there. Besides nice guys always get the girl in the end and by your avatar you're pretty cute so you still have a chance
2006-08-01 17:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by roseyroses14 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, first i was going to offer advice until you added that you were a bad a**, then i decided to look into your profile and judging by most of your other questions, this one should have instead read "why do dorks like me get ignored?".
sorry dude but their isn't a woman in the world who is going to go for someone that continuously talks penguin army nonsense and rambles about movies and adult swim. if i had to guess i would place you at 14 years old. women want men not boys
2006-08-01 19:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by thelogicalferret 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls want things they can't have. You've got to treat them like crap. You've got to be the shallow dipsh*t. Why? That way you can get laid. Who cares what other's think as long as you get laid. You want to be the guy she complains about to her "nice" male friends.
Your assignment. Listen to Leykis 101 every Thursday.
2006-08-01 17:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the girls that ignored a guy like you were probably just losers and your better off without them. You sound like the kind of guy im a sucker for.
2006-08-01 19:03:56 · answer #7 · answered by Who, Me?? ...I'm Lost... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry all good things take time if u take a chance or a risk im sure that u will eventually find the right girl dont give up always have a postivie attitude. :)
2006-08-01 17:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by jessie lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhhhhhh i think from what u wrote ur very nice and sweet thats so wonderful i want more people like u on this world .........maybe u should just wait till the right one comes inn and makes your life happy :) keep on good
2006-08-01 17:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is just our need to rebel against parents or what ever, but its been shown that this is just a phase and later in life we learn to appreciate the good guys. and sometimes guys are just... too nice.
2006-08-01 17:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋