Ever sence me and my family were shot, I have wishe dit was me instead of them. All i want t for someone to be their for me, someone to share my qyuestion's with. I'd rather ask now, then do some i reget l8ter, and lose my future.
2006-08-01 10:06:55 · 23 answers · asked by LilC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh honey...
you need to talk to your friends
talk to your living family
talk to your preistly type person.
it is their job to help you in your time of need
to give solace in your time of pain.
...
I can't do much more than offer my condolences.
and say that i'm crying over here...
2006-08-01 10:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am truely sorry for you lose. It is not wrong to ask questions because they are the key ways to help us though life. I to have lost a father that was shot and killed when I was only eight months old. I never got to know him for who he truely was. You have had the opportunity to know your family and love them. I never got that chance. Cherish the memories that you have of them and keep them with you always. People do stupid things sometimes and it hurts, but there is one thing that no person can take and that is the memories that you will always keep. Don't let it bet the best of you. Just know that you are not alone. God spared your life for reason maybe to help others going though this too. Once again I am truely sorry and remember you are not alone.
2006-08-01 17:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y ou can ask away. Its a matter of how serious some of these other answerers would be. Some now are being cool, but then you got the few Asses that want nothing more to ruin your day. I had lost my father last year, but not like how you experienced. Is quite sad, and some questions are still not answered, and I think they never will be.
2006-08-01 17:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by Silverstang 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with that at all. Every person needs someone to guide them and people to help answer their questions. Because of your situation, you are finding a source for that need. Don't feel guilty... your parents brought you into this world so you could form a life that would make them proud. And that holds true even though they aren't here. You are left here to carry on their name and to write the legacy that they couldn't stay to finish. So be strong and make them proud!
2006-08-01 17:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by Britkneeinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to talk but is this the best way? Do you have a counsellor or someone close to you you can talk to? I have trained as a counsellor and would be glad to listen to your feelings, but it is a huge thing you have been through and you would be better dealing with it with a professional close to home that you can see regularly. Talk to your friends, family, teachers, doctor, anyone that can help and listen. If you want to talk then my Instant Messenger address/profile is simply mick_horsman.
At least you are trying to deal with this and not letting things build up. Good luck darling.
2006-08-01 17:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by Mick H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need help, you should find an adult that you know and trust. Ask them first. This site is great for advise, but so many people that use this service use it as a game. They just want points.
Be careful about which advise you choose to follow.
2006-08-01 17:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by agentm006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am soooo sorry for your loss, but there is a reason for everything and you may not understand right now why you are alive and they are not but,later in life you will. GOD has his ways painful as it is for you right now. You need to talk to a person you can trust like a teacher or councilor, pastor, there is someone out there that will help you...ok?
2006-08-01 17:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by JACKIE M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isn't, but if you feel that way then maybe you need to speak to someone else, people here do it for fun and laughs and you need support and help. Going threw the situation you are right now it must be very hard. Think about who the closest friend you have and go to him/ her and talk and let yourself go. You need to let go off the stress.
2006-08-01 17:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I understand it - this is an open question and answer board so go for it - as long as it fits in with one of the categories and isn't against yahoo rules.
On the other hand you should talk to someone professional to deal with your upset and anxiety.
2006-08-01 17:11:47 · answer #9 · answered by LifeChange 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its never wrong to ask questions and if the story you share is indeed true then let me leave you with some words of wisdom
things will get better no matter what
and also remember
good things take time
2006-08-01 17:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by ggggggabe! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Questions are designed to be answered, and are important. Otherwise, we wouldn't ask them. You should find a real-life friend to ask a lot of them to. Real relationships are usually more solid than cyberspace based ones.
2006-08-01 17:10:55 · answer #11 · answered by Womp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋